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Returning to Work Full Time....

San Antonio Gal — Sat, 17 Nov 2018 16:08:41 GMT

I'm returning to my career in banking the Monday after Thanksgiving. It's been nice not working, but at 55, there's no reason for me not to work. I'm looking forward to it, but at the same time, I know there's going to be the day to day stress of working full time, etc. However, I'm very thankful to have the job!

Does anyone have any thoughts to share?

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SXMGirl — Sat, 17 Nov 2018 16:28:03 GMT

@San Antonio Gal, I admire you for returning to work and wish you well. I am still trying to talk myself into doing the same thing.

My advice, as someone who was out on a medical leave for months, is to take your time in whatever you are doing. Do not let anyone rush you unless it is a life or death situation, wihich hopefully it will not be. Make sure that you are getting enough to drink and stay hydrated. After you have eaten lunch, go for a walk. Make sure that you still do some type of exercise every day and get enough sleep at night.

Most important is to not let stress get in the way. That may mean taking a few minutes to do a meditation (sounds dramatic, I know, but sometimes you just need a moment). Also, be friendly but do not tell your business.

Good luck, you will be great!

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ItsME — Sat, 17 Nov 2018 16:30:27 GMT

@San Antonio Gal Don't know that I have advice. Just want to wish you luck with the job. Try to keep the stress level to a minimum, and enjoy the good stuff.

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dex — Sat, 17 Nov 2018 16:56:00 GMT

@San Antonio Gal@Depending how long you have been away ...expect a different attitude in the workplace.One of my friends had to retire from ER.She felt she didn’t fit in anymore.

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qvcfreak — Sat, 17 Nov 2018 17:02:13 GMT

I retired at 51, stayed home two years and then went to work part time for a couple of years. At 55 I went back to full time in a totally different field. I’ve been there 5 months and I absolutely love it. It’s not a stressful job and I want to work until I’m 62 if I continue in good health. Good luck and congratulations on your new job.

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Burnsite — Sat, 17 Nov 2018 17:13:46 GMT

You'll do fine--congratulations on getting the position!

Only advice I'd give: the first time you think, "This was a mistake," put that thought away for a week or two. It could just be a bad colleague you'll learn how to deal with, or a bad patch in the work flow. I've learned to like quite a few positions that came with a bumpy early adjustment period.

Allow for possible bumpiness for the first six months or so. Then you can decide.

You'll be happy for certain when you start receiving the paycheck!

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drizzellla — Sat, 17 Nov 2018 17:36:54 GMT

You are starting back to work at a busy time. I bet the day will just fly by.

Sit back take a big breath and I am sure you will handle the job just fine.

It is funny, my old boss emailed me last week. She was clearing out her Mother's house and found something she thought I might be interested in. So for the first time since I retired, I stopped by work on Thursday. I was shocked when she asked me if I wanted to come back to work. Apparently the person they hired to replace me (it took 6 months to find her) is not working out as well as they hoped.

I am tempted.

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San Antonio Gal — Sat, 17 Nov 2018 18:09:28 GMT

I really appreciate all the kind and supportive posts. It's great to have a place to post our thoughts and get feedback on different situations in our lives. I thank you all for taking the time to respond.

@drizzellla- That's awesome to know your former employer wants you to come back to work! You obviously were a valuable employee. Please keep us posted on what you decide? Good luck with your decision!

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meallen616 — Sat, 17 Nov 2018 18:19:19 GMT

@San Antonio Gal,

Wishing you,

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SurferWife — Sat, 17 Nov 2018 18:36:48 GMT

Congratulations @San Antonio GalI hope it’s exciting & challenging for you. Let us know how it goes after you get settled in.

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qualitygal — Sat, 17 Nov 2018 18:40:11 GMT

good for you. well done.

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SilleeMee — Sat, 17 Nov 2018 18:53:42 GMT

I'm happy for you @San Antonio Gal. I wish I could go back to work. I had to go on disability when I was just 47. I miss my work very much. Good luck with going back to yours!

eta - I'm 63 now so it's been a while.

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drizzellla — Sat, 17 Nov 2018 18:52:54 GMT

San Antonio Gal

Please keep us posted on your new adventure.

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SydneyH — Sat, 17 Nov 2018 19:25:04 GMT

@dex wrote:
@San Antonio Gal@Depending how long you have been away ...expect a different attitude in the workplace.One of my friends had to retire from ER.She felt she didn’t fit in anymore.

I've noticed a distinct difference in work ethics in younger employees, all you can do lead by example imo.

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Caaareful Shopper — Sat, 17 Nov 2018 19:28:13 GMT

@San Antonio Gal CONGRATULATIONS, and good luck!

I'm 57; I worked in the marketing and research industry for over two decades. Then I totally flipped the switch and for the last decade I've been in acquisitions and contract regulations. Never the same day twice. It can get quite stressful and hectic, but I love working hard, and the learning is never-ending. I cannot imagine not working......well, sometimes I can, but I really love my job.

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RedTop — Sat, 17 Nov 2018 20:16:02 GMT

I retired from a nice cushy office job in hospital administration, but would rather scrub toilets or pick up roadside trash than return to work!

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JYWilliams — Sat, 17 Nov 2018 20:25:53 GMT

No adivce, but wanted to say Good Luck to you and I hope you enjoy being back full time.

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wildcat fan — Sat, 17 Nov 2018 20:29:20 GMT

I was a stay at home mom for several years then decided to go to graduate school then get a full time job. Sometimes I miss being home and having a flexible schedule, but the pay check is a great incentive!

Guess my thoughts/advice based on my experiences would be to try to make time for yourself each week and try not to get caught up in workplace drama. Best of luck to you. 😊

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Carmie — Sat, 17 Nov 2018 20:29:32 GMT

As long as you enjoy working and Are happy doing what you are doing, I think going back to work is wonderful. You are still young.

It is much healthier to keep your mind and body active. It also doesn't hurt to build up more Social Security income. It will be appreciated when you are old enough to collect.

You should be happy that you have a choice, Some poor souls have to work forever in order to support themselves.

My DH retired at age 60. He was so bored, so he now works part time, but his hours have been increasing into almost full time. He keeps promising that he is going to retire for real, but he really enjoys his job and I don't see that happening anytime soon.

Congratulations

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cherry — Sat, 17 Nov 2018 20:33:07 GMT

As long as you are happy with your choice, that is all that matters, and it sounds like you are