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    <title>topic Friday's Positive Thread in Community Chat</title>
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    <description>&lt;P&gt;Let the story of your life be one of prayer and its answers because more is&lt;BR /&gt; given&lt;BR /&gt; to us through prayer than we can imagine. Lord, I will gratefully live the&lt;BR /&gt; blessings&lt;BR /&gt; that You pour into my life.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Scripture for the day:&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "Strive first for the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these&lt;BR /&gt; things will be given to you as well." ~Matthew 6:33&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; M E D I T A T I O N F O R T H E D A Y&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; I can try to grow into a new life. I can think of spiritual things often,&lt;BR /&gt; and unconsciously I can grow. The nearer I get to the new life, the more I&lt;BR /&gt; can see my unfitness. My sense of failure can be a sign that I am growing&lt;BR /&gt; in the new life. It is only struggle that hurts. In sloth--physical,&lt;BR /&gt; mental, or spiritual--there is no sense of failure or discomfort. With&lt;BR /&gt; struggle and effort, I can be conscious not of strength but of weakness&lt;BR /&gt; until I am really living the new life. But in the struggle, I can always&lt;BR /&gt; rely on the power of God to help me.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Prayer for the day:&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; I pray that I may see signs of my growth in the new life. I pray that I may&lt;BR /&gt; always keep trying to grow.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Hello my friends! Today has been a good day, been praying a lot for Darla's&lt;BR /&gt; healing and that she can make the trip - and tonight found out they are&lt;BR /&gt; coming - Greg will drive. And by then I am trusting she will feel a lot&lt;BR /&gt; better too, prayers do work, you know. Pray and Trust. Continuing on with&lt;BR /&gt; much prayer tomorrow - having a candle lit for her too. Tomorrow is&lt;BR /&gt; Linus' day off - first one in 4 days!!! Then he works Sat., Sun. Mon. and&lt;BR /&gt; Tues. yet before having 3 days off. Saturday the weather may be bad -&lt;BR /&gt; freezing rain and sleet. Praying for no accidents anywhere. May the Angels&lt;BR /&gt; be with all travelers. Praying for you all for all your needs, thanks for&lt;BR /&gt; your prayers for us. God bless you!!&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Here's the prayer I've been praying for Darla:&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Memorare&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone&lt;BR /&gt; who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession&lt;BR /&gt; was left unaided. Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of&lt;BR /&gt; Virgins, my mother, to you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and&lt;BR /&gt; sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions but in&lt;BR /&gt; your mercy hear and answer me. Amen. (I prayed this and memorized it when I&lt;BR /&gt; was a teen)&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The actual author of the Memorare is unknown. It has been traditionally&lt;BR /&gt; attributed to the abbot St. Bernard of Clairvaux from the 12th century. This&lt;BR /&gt; is possibly because it was championed by another Bernard, the French priest&lt;BR /&gt; Claude Bernard, who used it extensively in his ministry to the poor and to&lt;BR /&gt; prisoners (including some quite hardened criminals!) in the 17th century.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Claude Bernard credited reciting the Memorare with curing him of a serious&lt;BR /&gt; illness. He had some 200,000 copies of the prayer printed up and distributed&lt;BR /&gt; in leaflets in various languages during his lifetime. (This was no small&lt;BR /&gt; feat in the days before desktop publishing, Kinko’s and the Internet!)&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Church teaching holds that Mary is the Mother of the Church and our mother&lt;BR /&gt; as well “in the order of grace” (that is to say, spiritually) as we read in&lt;BR /&gt; the Catechism of the Catholic Church (CCC 969).&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Upon her death and assumption into heaven, “God chose her to be the&lt;BR /&gt; treasurer, the administrator and the dispenser of all his graces, so that&lt;BR /&gt; all his graces and gifts pass through her hands,” according to St. Louis De&lt;BR /&gt; Montfort, the celebrated 18th century French priest best known as a champion&lt;BR /&gt; of devotion to Mary.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Mary’s wonderful role in assisting in our salvation has been praised by many&lt;BR /&gt; Saints and Church fathers alike over the centuries. St. Lawrence Justinian&lt;BR /&gt; summed up the feelings of many of them when he once referred to the Blessed&lt;BR /&gt; Mother as “the ladder of paradise, the gate of heaven, the most true&lt;BR /&gt; mediatrix between God and man.”&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Do you have a particular problem you feel you can’t share with our Creator?&lt;BR /&gt; Or perhaps you think he’s too busy? He’s never too busy to hear a sincere&lt;BR /&gt; request for His aid and guidance. (Indeed, he’s never too busy for any of&lt;BR /&gt; us, period!) Still, we are always welcome to ask His mother to help us. In&lt;BR /&gt; fact this delights our Lord!&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; As De Montfort once put it, by asking Mary to approach Him for us “we are&lt;BR /&gt; practicing humility, something which always gladdens the heart of God!” (St.&lt;BR /&gt; Francis de Sales once wrote in this regard that “God so loves humility that&lt;BR /&gt; He instantly hastens to the soul in which he sees it.”)&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Keep in mind again that when we pray to Mary we also pray through her to her&lt;BR /&gt; Divine Son, Jesus! And she is happy to pray for us and to intercede with Him&lt;BR /&gt; on our behalf. You’ve probably asked a friend or colleague to pray for you&lt;BR /&gt; sometimes. Why not ask the Blessed Mother as well? After all, in the Hail&lt;BR /&gt; Mary we ask for her to “pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our&lt;BR /&gt; death.”&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; As long as we approach her with a sincere desire to do God’s will and to&lt;BR /&gt; make amends for our sins, we can ask for her help with confidence. (And,&lt;BR /&gt; after all, does it ever hurt to get on the good side of a loved one’s&lt;BR /&gt; mother?)&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; When our Lord said to St. John when He was on the cross “Behold Thy Mother”&lt;BR /&gt; (John 19:27) His mother became ours as well, as mentioned earlier! Don’t be&lt;BR /&gt; afraid to ask our Blessed Mother for her assistance (or to show her your&lt;BR /&gt; love!) by praying the Memorare, the Rosary, or many other fine prayers and&lt;BR /&gt; devotions to her.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The "W" in Christmas&lt;BR /&gt; Author Unknown&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Each December, I vowed to make Christmas a calm and peaceful&lt;BR /&gt; experience.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; I had cut back on nonessential obligations - extensive card writing,&lt;BR /&gt; endless baking, decorating, and even overspending.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Yet still, I found myself exhausted, unable to appreciate the precious&lt;BR /&gt; family moments, and of course, the true meaning of Christmas.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; My son, Nicholas, was in kindergarten that year. It was an exciting&lt;BR /&gt; season for a six year old.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; For weeks, he'd been memorizing songs for his school's "Winter&lt;BR /&gt; Pageant."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; I didn't have the heart to tell him I'd be working the night of the&lt;BR /&gt; production. Unwilling to miss his shining moment, I spoke with his&lt;BR /&gt; teacher. She assured me there would be a dress rehearsal the morning&lt;BR /&gt; of the presentation.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; All parents unable to attend that evening were welcome to come then.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Fortunately, Nicholas seemed happy with the compromise.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; So, the morning of the dress rehearsal, I filed in ten minutes early,&lt;BR /&gt; found a spot on the cafeteria floor and sat down. Around the room, I&lt;BR /&gt; saw several other parents quietly scampering to their seats.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; As I waited, the students were led into the room. Each class,&lt;BR /&gt; accompanied by their teacher, sat cross-legged on the floor. Then,&lt;BR /&gt; each group, one by one, rose to perform their song.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Because the public school system had long stopped referring to the&lt;BR /&gt; holiday as "Christmas," I didn't expect anything other than fun,&lt;BR /&gt; commercial entertainment songs of reindeer, Santa Claus, snowflakes&lt;BR /&gt; and good cheer.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; So, when my son's class rose to sing, "Christmas Love," I was slightly&lt;BR /&gt; taken aback by its bold title.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Nicholas was aglow, as were all of his classmates, adorned in fuzzy&lt;BR /&gt; mittens, red sweaters, and bright snow-caps upon their heads.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Those in the front row- center stage - held up large letters, one by&lt;BR /&gt; one, to spell out the title of the song.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; As the class would sing "C is for Christmas," a child would hold up&lt;BR /&gt; the letter C. Then, "H is for Happy," and on and on, until each child&lt;BR /&gt; holding up his portion had presented the complete message, "Christmas&lt;BR /&gt; Love."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The performance was going smoothly, until suddenly, we noticed her; a&lt;BR /&gt; small, quiet, girl in the front row holding the letter "M" upside down&lt;BR /&gt; - totally unaware her letter "M" appeared as a "W".&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The audience of 1st through 6th graders snickered at this little one's&lt;BR /&gt; mistake. But she had no idea they were laughing at her, so she stood&lt;BR /&gt; tall, proudly holding her "W".&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Although many teachers tried to shush the children, the laughter&lt;BR /&gt; continued until the last letter was raised, and we all saw it&lt;BR /&gt; together.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; A hush came over the audience and eyes began to widen.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; In that instant, we understood the reason we were there, why we&lt;BR /&gt; celebrated the holiday in the first place, why even in the chaos,&lt;BR /&gt; there was a purpose for our festivities.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; For when the last letter was held high, the message read loud and&lt;BR /&gt; clear:&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "C H R I S T W A S L O V E"&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; And, I believe, He still is.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Amazed in His presence.... humbled by His love.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; HAVE A BLESSED CHRISTMAS SEASON&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 25 Ways to Share Joy this Christmas Season&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 1. Mend a broken relationship with a&lt;BR /&gt; friend or relative during the holidays.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 2. Every night of the Christmas Season,&lt;BR /&gt; before going to bed, ask yourself,&lt;BR /&gt; "Whose life did I make brighter today?"&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 3. Give your toddler the honor of placing&lt;BR /&gt; the star or angel on the top of the Christmas tree.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 4. Try the Swedish custom of writing a short,&lt;BR /&gt; lighthearted poem on each of your gift cards&lt;BR /&gt; that half reveals the contents of the present.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 5. Take a holiday family photograph each year in&lt;BR /&gt; the same spot, such as by a favorite tree in your yard.&lt;BR /&gt; In the years to come, you'll have a wonderful&lt;BR /&gt; record not only of the growth in your family,&lt;BR /&gt; but also of the growth of your tree.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 6. Tell your children about Christmas&lt;BR /&gt; when you were their age.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 7. Offer to run Christmas errands&lt;BR /&gt; for an elderly friend or relative.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 8. Record a cheerful Christmas greeting&lt;BR /&gt; for your answering machine.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 9. Learn to say "Merry Christmas" in&lt;BR /&gt; several languages.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 10. Remember that Christmas carols never sound&lt;BR /&gt; better than when you sing them in church.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 11. Tip someone who doesn't expect it.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 12. End an evening with family and close friends by&lt;BR /&gt; forming a circle, holding hands, and&lt;BR /&gt; singing a favorite Christmas carol.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 13. Reserve a night for the entire&lt;BR /&gt; family to make ornaments for your tree.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 14. Set aside some time at the beginning of the&lt;BR /&gt; holiday season to help your children&lt;BR /&gt; plan their gift-giving lists.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 15. On a clear night, find the bright North&lt;BR /&gt; Star and recall the story of the Wise Men.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 16. Open Christmas cards as a family activity each&lt;BR /&gt; night at the dinner table. Read the messages aloud.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 17. Toast your friends when they are in your home.&lt;BR /&gt; Tell them how much it means to have them there.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 18. This Christmas, write letters to several people&lt;BR /&gt; who have had a positive influence on your life.&lt;BR /&gt; Thank them for this gift they have given you.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 19. Take a decorated miniature tree&lt;BR /&gt; to someone in a hospital or nursing home.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 20. Secretly shovel the snow off&lt;BR /&gt; of your neighbor's front walk.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 21. Instead of giving gifts at the office, take&lt;BR /&gt; up a collection to donate to a designated charity.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 22. If you have friends who have lost family&lt;BR /&gt; members since last Christmas, make a special&lt;BR /&gt; effort to call and cheer them during the holidays.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 23. Begin a Christmas journal. Write down memories&lt;BR /&gt; your family will share: events you attend, presents&lt;BR /&gt; you give and receive, and the&lt;BR /&gt; inevitable crises that occur.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 24. Don't try to do everything yourself.&lt;BR /&gt; Remember, even Santa needs helpers.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 25. Take time to remember that the greatest&lt;BR /&gt; holiday gift is a home filled with the people you love.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Don't be too busy today...&lt;BR /&gt; Share these ideas with friends and family!&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; THE FIRST CRIB&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; St. Francis of Assisi assembled the first crib in a cave on an Italian&lt;BR /&gt; hillside in 1223. His aim was to make the Christmas story come alive for the&lt;BR /&gt; shepherds and farmers of the locality.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; On Christmas eve the friars and the people assembled with candles and&lt;BR /&gt; torches to illuminate the night. Then Francis arrived and was very happy&lt;BR /&gt; when he saw the preparations they had made.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The crib was put in place.&lt;BR /&gt; The hay was brought in.&lt;BR /&gt; The ox and donkey were led forward.&lt;BR /&gt; The woods rang with their prayers.&lt;BR /&gt; The rocks echoed with their hymns.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Francis spoke to them about God's Son coming among us to help us to realize&lt;BR /&gt; our splendid dignity as sons and daughters of the same Father.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; At the end of the vigil they all returned to their homes, full of peace and&lt;BR /&gt; joy, feeling very close to GOD and to ONE ANOTHER.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Blessed Christmas!&lt;BR /&gt; (Author Unknown)&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt;&lt;/P&gt;</description>
    <pubDate>Fri, 14 Dec 2012 03:57:12 GMT</pubDate>
    <dc:creator>gloriajean</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2012-12-14T03:57:12Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Friday's Positive Thread</title>
      <link>https://community.qvc.com/t5/Community-Chat/Friday-s-Positive-Thread/m-p/275511#M117564</link>
      <description>&lt;P&gt;Let the story of your life be one of prayer and its answers because more is&lt;BR /&gt; given&lt;BR /&gt; to us through prayer than we can imagine. Lord, I will gratefully live the&lt;BR /&gt; blessings&lt;BR /&gt; that You pour into my life.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Scripture for the day:&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "Strive first for the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these&lt;BR /&gt; things will be given to you as well." ~Matthew 6:33&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; M E D I T A T I O N F O R T H E D A Y&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; I can try to grow into a new life. I can think of spiritual things often,&lt;BR /&gt; and unconsciously I can grow. The nearer I get to the new life, the more I&lt;BR /&gt; can see my unfitness. My sense of failure can be a sign that I am growing&lt;BR /&gt; in the new life. It is only struggle that hurts. In sloth--physical,&lt;BR /&gt; mental, or spiritual--there is no sense of failure or discomfort. With&lt;BR /&gt; struggle and effort, I can be conscious not of strength but of weakness&lt;BR /&gt; until I am really living the new life. But in the struggle, I can always&lt;BR /&gt; rely on the power of God to help me.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Prayer for the day:&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; I pray that I may see signs of my growth in the new life. I pray that I may&lt;BR /&gt; always keep trying to grow.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Hello my friends! Today has been a good day, been praying a lot for Darla's&lt;BR /&gt; healing and that she can make the trip - and tonight found out they are&lt;BR /&gt; coming - Greg will drive. And by then I am trusting she will feel a lot&lt;BR /&gt; better too, prayers do work, you know. Pray and Trust. Continuing on with&lt;BR /&gt; much prayer tomorrow - having a candle lit for her too. Tomorrow is&lt;BR /&gt; Linus' day off - first one in 4 days!!! Then he works Sat., Sun. Mon. and&lt;BR /&gt; Tues. yet before having 3 days off. Saturday the weather may be bad -&lt;BR /&gt; freezing rain and sleet. Praying for no accidents anywhere. May the Angels&lt;BR /&gt; be with all travelers. Praying for you all for all your needs, thanks for&lt;BR /&gt; your prayers for us. God bless you!!&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Here's the prayer I've been praying for Darla:&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Memorare&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone&lt;BR /&gt; who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession&lt;BR /&gt; was left unaided. Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of&lt;BR /&gt; Virgins, my mother, to you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and&lt;BR /&gt; sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions but in&lt;BR /&gt; your mercy hear and answer me. Amen. (I prayed this and memorized it when I&lt;BR /&gt; was a teen)&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The actual author of the Memorare is unknown. It has been traditionally&lt;BR /&gt; attributed to the abbot St. Bernard of Clairvaux from the 12th century. This&lt;BR /&gt; is possibly because it was championed by another Bernard, the French priest&lt;BR /&gt; Claude Bernard, who used it extensively in his ministry to the poor and to&lt;BR /&gt; prisoners (including some quite hardened criminals!) in the 17th century.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Claude Bernard credited reciting the Memorare with curing him of a serious&lt;BR /&gt; illness. He had some 200,000 copies of the prayer printed up and distributed&lt;BR /&gt; in leaflets in various languages during his lifetime. (This was no small&lt;BR /&gt; feat in the days before desktop publishing, Kinko’s and the Internet!)&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Church teaching holds that Mary is the Mother of the Church and our mother&lt;BR /&gt; as well “in the order of grace” (that is to say, spiritually) as we read in&lt;BR /&gt; the Catechism of the Catholic Church (CCC 969).&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Upon her death and assumption into heaven, “God chose her to be the&lt;BR /&gt; treasurer, the administrator and the dispenser of all his graces, so that&lt;BR /&gt; all his graces and gifts pass through her hands,” according to St. Louis De&lt;BR /&gt; Montfort, the celebrated 18th century French priest best known as a champion&lt;BR /&gt; of devotion to Mary.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Mary’s wonderful role in assisting in our salvation has been praised by many&lt;BR /&gt; Saints and Church fathers alike over the centuries. St. Lawrence Justinian&lt;BR /&gt; summed up the feelings of many of them when he once referred to the Blessed&lt;BR /&gt; Mother as “the ladder of paradise, the gate of heaven, the most true&lt;BR /&gt; mediatrix between God and man.”&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Do you have a particular problem you feel you can’t share with our Creator?&lt;BR /&gt; Or perhaps you think he’s too busy? He’s never too busy to hear a sincere&lt;BR /&gt; request for His aid and guidance. (Indeed, he’s never too busy for any of&lt;BR /&gt; us, period!) Still, we are always welcome to ask His mother to help us. In&lt;BR /&gt; fact this delights our Lord!&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; As De Montfort once put it, by asking Mary to approach Him for us “we are&lt;BR /&gt; practicing humility, something which always gladdens the heart of God!” (St.&lt;BR /&gt; Francis de Sales once wrote in this regard that “God so loves humility that&lt;BR /&gt; He instantly hastens to the soul in which he sees it.”)&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Keep in mind again that when we pray to Mary we also pray through her to her&lt;BR /&gt; Divine Son, Jesus! And she is happy to pray for us and to intercede with Him&lt;BR /&gt; on our behalf. You’ve probably asked a friend or colleague to pray for you&lt;BR /&gt; sometimes. Why not ask the Blessed Mother as well? After all, in the Hail&lt;BR /&gt; Mary we ask for her to “pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our&lt;BR /&gt; death.”&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; As long as we approach her with a sincere desire to do God’s will and to&lt;BR /&gt; make amends for our sins, we can ask for her help with confidence. (And,&lt;BR /&gt; after all, does it ever hurt to get on the good side of a loved one’s&lt;BR /&gt; mother?)&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; When our Lord said to St. John when He was on the cross “Behold Thy Mother”&lt;BR /&gt; (John 19:27) His mother became ours as well, as mentioned earlier! Don’t be&lt;BR /&gt; afraid to ask our Blessed Mother for her assistance (or to show her your&lt;BR /&gt; love!) by praying the Memorare, the Rosary, or many other fine prayers and&lt;BR /&gt; devotions to her.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The "W" in Christmas&lt;BR /&gt; Author Unknown&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Each December, I vowed to make Christmas a calm and peaceful&lt;BR /&gt; experience.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; I had cut back on nonessential obligations - extensive card writing,&lt;BR /&gt; endless baking, decorating, and even overspending.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Yet still, I found myself exhausted, unable to appreciate the precious&lt;BR /&gt; family moments, and of course, the true meaning of Christmas.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; My son, Nicholas, was in kindergarten that year. It was an exciting&lt;BR /&gt; season for a six year old.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; For weeks, he'd been memorizing songs for his school's "Winter&lt;BR /&gt; Pageant."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; I didn't have the heart to tell him I'd be working the night of the&lt;BR /&gt; production. Unwilling to miss his shining moment, I spoke with his&lt;BR /&gt; teacher. She assured me there would be a dress rehearsal the morning&lt;BR /&gt; of the presentation.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; All parents unable to attend that evening were welcome to come then.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Fortunately, Nicholas seemed happy with the compromise.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; So, the morning of the dress rehearsal, I filed in ten minutes early,&lt;BR /&gt; found a spot on the cafeteria floor and sat down. Around the room, I&lt;BR /&gt; saw several other parents quietly scampering to their seats.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; As I waited, the students were led into the room. Each class,&lt;BR /&gt; accompanied by their teacher, sat cross-legged on the floor. Then,&lt;BR /&gt; each group, one by one, rose to perform their song.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Because the public school system had long stopped referring to the&lt;BR /&gt; holiday as "Christmas," I didn't expect anything other than fun,&lt;BR /&gt; commercial entertainment songs of reindeer, Santa Claus, snowflakes&lt;BR /&gt; and good cheer.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; So, when my son's class rose to sing, "Christmas Love," I was slightly&lt;BR /&gt; taken aback by its bold title.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Nicholas was aglow, as were all of his classmates, adorned in fuzzy&lt;BR /&gt; mittens, red sweaters, and bright snow-caps upon their heads.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Those in the front row- center stage - held up large letters, one by&lt;BR /&gt; one, to spell out the title of the song.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; As the class would sing "C is for Christmas," a child would hold up&lt;BR /&gt; the letter C. Then, "H is for Happy," and on and on, until each child&lt;BR /&gt; holding up his portion had presented the complete message, "Christmas&lt;BR /&gt; Love."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The performance was going smoothly, until suddenly, we noticed her; a&lt;BR /&gt; small, quiet, girl in the front row holding the letter "M" upside down&lt;BR /&gt; - totally unaware her letter "M" appeared as a "W".&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The audience of 1st through 6th graders snickered at this little one's&lt;BR /&gt; mistake. But she had no idea they were laughing at her, so she stood&lt;BR /&gt; tall, proudly holding her "W".&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Although many teachers tried to shush the children, the laughter&lt;BR /&gt; continued until the last letter was raised, and we all saw it&lt;BR /&gt; together.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; A hush came over the audience and eyes began to widen.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; In that instant, we understood the reason we were there, why we&lt;BR /&gt; celebrated the holiday in the first place, why even in the chaos,&lt;BR /&gt; there was a purpose for our festivities.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; For when the last letter was held high, the message read loud and&lt;BR /&gt; clear:&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "C H R I S T W A S L O V E"&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; And, I believe, He still is.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Amazed in His presence.... humbled by His love.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; HAVE A BLESSED CHRISTMAS SEASON&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 25 Ways to Share Joy this Christmas Season&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 1. Mend a broken relationship with a&lt;BR /&gt; friend or relative during the holidays.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 2. Every night of the Christmas Season,&lt;BR /&gt; before going to bed, ask yourself,&lt;BR /&gt; "Whose life did I make brighter today?"&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 3. Give your toddler the honor of placing&lt;BR /&gt; the star or angel on the top of the Christmas tree.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 4. Try the Swedish custom of writing a short,&lt;BR /&gt; lighthearted poem on each of your gift cards&lt;BR /&gt; that half reveals the contents of the present.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 5. Take a holiday family photograph each year in&lt;BR /&gt; the same spot, such as by a favorite tree in your yard.&lt;BR /&gt; In the years to come, you'll have a wonderful&lt;BR /&gt; record not only of the growth in your family,&lt;BR /&gt; but also of the growth of your tree.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 6. Tell your children about Christmas&lt;BR /&gt; when you were their age.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 7. Offer to run Christmas errands&lt;BR /&gt; for an elderly friend or relative.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 8. Record a cheerful Christmas greeting&lt;BR /&gt; for your answering machine.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 9. Learn to say "Merry Christmas" in&lt;BR /&gt; several languages.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 10. Remember that Christmas carols never sound&lt;BR /&gt; better than when you sing them in church.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 11. Tip someone who doesn't expect it.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 12. End an evening with family and close friends by&lt;BR /&gt; forming a circle, holding hands, and&lt;BR /&gt; singing a favorite Christmas carol.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 13. Reserve a night for the entire&lt;BR /&gt; family to make ornaments for your tree.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 14. Set aside some time at the beginning of the&lt;BR /&gt; holiday season to help your children&lt;BR /&gt; plan their gift-giving lists.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 15. On a clear night, find the bright North&lt;BR /&gt; Star and recall the story of the Wise Men.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 16. Open Christmas cards as a family activity each&lt;BR /&gt; night at the dinner table. Read the messages aloud.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 17. Toast your friends when they are in your home.&lt;BR /&gt; Tell them how much it means to have them there.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 18. This Christmas, write letters to several people&lt;BR /&gt; who have had a positive influence on your life.&lt;BR /&gt; Thank them for this gift they have given you.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 19. Take a decorated miniature tree&lt;BR /&gt; to someone in a hospital or nursing home.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 20. Secretly shovel the snow off&lt;BR /&gt; of your neighbor's front walk.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 21. Instead of giving gifts at the office, take&lt;BR /&gt; up a collection to donate to a designated charity.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 22. If you have friends who have lost family&lt;BR /&gt; members since last Christmas, make a special&lt;BR /&gt; effort to call and cheer them during the holidays.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 23. Begin a Christmas journal. Write down memories&lt;BR /&gt; your family will share: events you attend, presents&lt;BR /&gt; you give and receive, and the&lt;BR /&gt; inevitable crises that occur.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 24. Don't try to do everything yourself.&lt;BR /&gt; Remember, even Santa needs helpers.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 25. Take time to remember that the greatest&lt;BR /&gt; holiday gift is a home filled with the people you love.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Don't be too busy today...&lt;BR /&gt; Share these ideas with friends and family!&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; THE FIRST CRIB&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; St. Francis of Assisi assembled the first crib in a cave on an Italian&lt;BR /&gt; hillside in 1223. His aim was to make the Christmas story come alive for the&lt;BR /&gt; shepherds and farmers of the locality.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; On Christmas eve the friars and the people assembled with candles and&lt;BR /&gt; torches to illuminate the night. Then Francis arrived and was very happy&lt;BR /&gt; when he saw the preparations they had made.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The crib was put in place.&lt;BR /&gt; The hay was brought in.&lt;BR /&gt; The ox and donkey were led forward.&lt;BR /&gt; The woods rang with their prayers.&lt;BR /&gt; The rocks echoed with their hymns.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Francis spoke to them about God's Son coming among us to help us to realize&lt;BR /&gt; our splendid dignity as sons and daughters of the same Father.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; At the end of the vigil they all returned to their homes, full of peace and&lt;BR /&gt; joy, feeling very close to GOD and to ONE ANOTHER.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Blessed Christmas!&lt;BR /&gt; (Author Unknown)&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt;&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 14 Dec 2012 03:57:12 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>gloriajean</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2012-12-14T03:57:12Z</dc:date>
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