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    <description>&lt;P&gt;Faith lifts us from the realm of the impossible to the possible. Lord,&lt;BR /&gt; thank you&lt;BR /&gt; for the gift of Faith. It fills the shadows in my life with sunshine and&lt;BR /&gt; removes&lt;BR /&gt; the despair of hopelessness.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; S C R I P T U R E F O R T H E D A Y&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "The high priest questioned them, saying, 'We gave you strict orders not to&lt;BR /&gt; teach in this name, yet here you have filled Jerusalem with your teaching&lt;BR /&gt; and you are determined to bring this man's blood on us.' But Peter and the&lt;BR /&gt; apostles answered, "We must obey God rather than any human authority."&lt;BR /&gt; ~Acts 5:27-29&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; M E D I T A T I O N F O R T H E D A Y&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Pride can stand sentinel at the door of the heart and shut out the love of&lt;BR /&gt; God. God dwells with the humble and the obedient. Obedience to God's will&lt;BR /&gt; is the key that unlocks the door. We cannot obey God to the best of our&lt;BR /&gt; ability without in time realizing God's love and responding to that love.&lt;BR /&gt; The rough stone steps of obedience can lead up to where the mosaic floor of&lt;BR /&gt; love and joy is laid. Where God's spirit is, there is our home.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; P R A Y E R F O R T H E D A Y&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; I pray that God may make a home in my humble and obedient heart. I pray&lt;BR /&gt; that I may obey God's guidance to the best of my ability.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Hello my friends! Sometimes I wonder if I should just send out this thread&lt;BR /&gt; once during the weekend, what do you think? Today was a very beautiful day&lt;BR /&gt; and we went to my sister, Deil's for lunch - which she made a delicious&lt;BR /&gt; lasagna and pumpkin pie! Had a wonderful visit with her - and we left for&lt;BR /&gt; home at around 4 PM - hit fog on the way, then called Lori who was stuck in&lt;BR /&gt; another town where she did massages for quilters all day - the fog there is&lt;BR /&gt; so thick, she thought not safe to drive home in. Now it's so thick here&lt;BR /&gt; too, so it's not safe for us to go pick up her dog either. He plans on&lt;BR /&gt; going there early in the morning to let him out again. When you read this -&lt;BR /&gt; please say a prayer for safety! It was a true blessing we left my sister's&lt;BR /&gt; when we did and not any later! Praying for all your intentions and thanks&lt;BR /&gt; for your prayers for us and Sammy! He appreciates all prayers, too!!!&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Ideals&lt;BR /&gt; Remember that ideals&lt;BR /&gt; are like stars up in the sky,&lt;BR /&gt; You can never really reach them,&lt;BR /&gt; hanging in the heavens high....&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; But like the mighty mariner&lt;BR /&gt; who sailed the storm-tossed sea,&lt;BR /&gt; And used the stars to chart his course&lt;BR /&gt; with skill and certainty,&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; You too can chart your course in life&lt;BR /&gt; with high ideals and love,&lt;BR /&gt; For high ideals are like the stars&lt;BR /&gt; that light the sky above....&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; You cannot ever reach them,&lt;BR /&gt; but lift your heart up high&lt;BR /&gt; And your life will be as shining&lt;BR /&gt; as the stars up in the sky.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; ~ Helen Steiner Rice ~&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Toddlers' Property Laws&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 1. If I like it, it's mine.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 2. If it's in my hand, it's mine.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 3. If I can take it from you, it's mine.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 4. If I had it a little while ago, it's mine.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 5. If it's mine, it must never appear to be yours in any way.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 6. If I'm doing or building something, all the pieces are mine.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 7. If it looks like mine, it is mine.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 8. If I saw it first, it's mine.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 9. If you are playing with something and you put it down, it automatically&lt;BR /&gt; becomes mine.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 10 If it's broken, it's yours.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; JUST CALL UPON HIM&lt;BR /&gt; -- Author Unknown&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The boy walked along the ocean shore . . . trying not to stray. He looked up&lt;BR /&gt; to his father saying, "Dad, I want to play."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; His father looked upon him, with love showing in his eyes. "Do what you want&lt;BR /&gt; to, my son . . . but do not leave my side."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "I would never leave you Daddy, I love you way too much." But the boy took a&lt;BR /&gt; step away, out of his father's range of touch.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; He walked through the surf, the waves tickling one toe. "If I take one more&lt;BR /&gt; step in . . ." he thought, "Father will never know."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; His father called out to him, "Son, to me remain true!" The boy thought with&lt;BR /&gt; glee . . . "At the moment I don't need you!"&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; His father felt a sadness, but he held his tongue. Sometimes lessons need to&lt;BR /&gt; be learned . . . even when so young.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The boy stepped out a little further . . . the water covering his waist. His&lt;BR /&gt; father spoke with urgency . . . his father spoke with haste.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "My son, come back to me," he said, "The day is almost done!" "Not yet,&lt;BR /&gt; Dad," the boy yelled, "I'm having too much fun!"&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; But the boy did not have his father's insight so he could not yet tell, The&lt;BR /&gt; tide was coming in fast . . . there would be no time to yell.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "Father!" he tried to scream, as the water covered his head. "I need you&lt;BR /&gt; now, Daddy!" was what the boy had said.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; And in a single instant his father was by his side. "I thought you left me,&lt;BR /&gt; Daddy . . . I thought you went to hide."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The father looked upon his son . . . a tear streaming down his cheek. The&lt;BR /&gt; boy looked upon his father . . . and cried the sobs of the meek.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "I would never leave you son . . . for I love you just the same." "I was&lt;BR /&gt; only waiting . . . for you to call upon my name."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; LESSONS ON LIFE&lt;BR /&gt; Author Unknown&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; There was a man who had four sons. He wanted his sons to learn not to&lt;BR /&gt; judge things too quickly. So he sent them each on a quest, in turn, to&lt;BR /&gt; go and look at a pear tree that was a great distance away.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The first son went in the winter, the second in the spring, the third&lt;BR /&gt; in summer, and the youngest son in the fall.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; When they had all gone and come back, he called them together to&lt;BR /&gt; describe what they had seen.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The first son said that the tree was ugly, bent, and twisted.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The second son said no it was covered with green buds and full of&lt;BR /&gt; promise.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The third son disagreed; he said it was laden with blossoms that&lt;BR /&gt; smelled so sweet and looked so beautiful, it was the most graceful&lt;BR /&gt; thing he had ever seen.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The last son disagreed with all of them; he said it was ripe and&lt;BR /&gt; drooping with fruit, full of life and fulfillment.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The man then explained to his sons that they were all right, because&lt;BR /&gt; they had each seen but only one season in the tree's life.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; He told them that you cannot judge a tree, or a person, by only one&lt;BR /&gt; season, and that the essence of who they are and the pleasure, joy,&lt;BR /&gt; and love that come from that life can only be measured at the end,&lt;BR /&gt; when all the seasons are up.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; If you give up when it's winter, you will miss the promise of your&lt;BR /&gt; spring, the beauty of your summer, fulfillment of your fall.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Moral:&lt;BR /&gt; Don't let the pain of one season destroy the joy of all the rest.&lt;BR /&gt; Don't judge life by one difficult season.&lt;BR /&gt; Persevere through the difficult patches and better times are sure to&lt;BR /&gt; come some time or later.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; M A D E I N H E A V E N&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Consumed by my loss, I didn't notice the hardness of the pew where I sat.&lt;BR /&gt; I was at the funeral of my dearest friend - my mother. She finally had&lt;BR /&gt; lost her long battle with cancer. The hurt was so intense, I found it&lt;BR /&gt; hard to breathe at times.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Always supportive, Mother clapped loudest at my school plays, held a box&lt;BR /&gt; of tissues while listening to my first heartbreak, comforted me at my&lt;BR /&gt; father's death, encouraged me in college, and prayed for me my entire life.&lt;BR /&gt; When Mother's illness was diagnosed, my sister had a new baby and my&lt;BR /&gt; brother had recently married his childhood sweetheart, so it fell on me,&lt;BR /&gt; the 27-year-old middle child without entanglements, to take care of her.&lt;BR /&gt; I counted it an honor. "What now, Lord?" I asked sitting in church. My&lt;BR /&gt; life stretched out before me as an empty abyss. My brother sat stoically&lt;BR /&gt; with his face toward the cross while clutching his wife's hand. My sister&lt;BR /&gt; sat slumped against her husband's shoulder, his arms around her as she&lt;BR /&gt; cradled their child.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; All so deeply grieving, no one noticed I sat alone. My place had been our&lt;BR /&gt; mother, preparing her meals, helping her walk, taking her to the doctor,&lt;BR /&gt; seeing to her medication, reading the Bible together. Now she was with the&lt;BR /&gt; Lord. My work was finished, and I was alone. I heard a door open and&lt;BR /&gt; slam at the back of the church. Quick footsteps hurried along the carpeted&lt;BR /&gt; floor. An exasperated young man looked around briefly and then sat next&lt;BR /&gt; to me. He folded his hands and placed them on his lap. His eyes were&lt;BR /&gt; brimming with tears. He began to sniffle.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "I'm late," he explained, though no explanation was necessary. After&lt;BR /&gt; several eulogies, he leaned over and commented, "Why do they keep calling&lt;BR /&gt; Mary by the name of 'Margaret'? "Oh" "Because that was her name, Margaret.&lt;BR /&gt; Never Mary. No one called her 'Mary,'" I whispered. I wondered why this&lt;BR /&gt; person couldn't have sat on the other side of the church. He interrupted&lt;BR /&gt; my grieving with his tears and fidgeting. Who was this stranger anyway?&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "No, that isn't correct," he insisted, as several people glanced over at us&lt;BR /&gt; whispering, "Her name is Mary, Mary Peters. "That isn't who this is, I&lt;BR /&gt; replied." "Isn't this the Lutheran church?"&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "No, the Lutheran church is across the street." "Oh." "I believe you're&lt;BR /&gt; at the wrong funeral, Sir." The solemnness of the occasion mixed with the&lt;BR /&gt; realization of the man's mistake bubbled up inside me and came out as&lt;BR /&gt; laughter. I cupped my hands over my face, hoping it would be interpreted as&lt;BR /&gt; sobs. The creaking pew gave me away. Sharp looks from other mourners&lt;BR /&gt; only made the situation seem more hilarious. I peeked at the bewildered,&lt;BR /&gt; misguided man seated beside me. He was laughing, too, as he glanced&lt;BR /&gt; around, deciding it was too late for an uneventful exit. I imagined Mother&lt;BR /&gt; laughing. At the final "Amen," we darted out a door and into the parking&lt;BR /&gt; lot. "I do believe we'll be the talk of the town," he smiled. He said his&lt;BR /&gt; name was Rick and since he had missed his aunt's funeral, asked me out for&lt;BR /&gt; a cup of coffee.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; That afternoon began a lifelong journey for me with this man&lt;BR /&gt; who attended the wrong funeral, but was in the right place. A year after&lt;BR /&gt; our meeting, we were married at a country church where he was the assistant&lt;BR /&gt; pastor. This time we both arrived at the same church, right on time. In&lt;BR /&gt; my time of sorrow, God gave me laughter. In place of loneliness, gave me&lt;BR /&gt; love. This past June we celebrated our twenty-second wedding anniversary.&lt;BR /&gt; Whenever anyone asks us how we met, Rick tells them, "Her mother and my&lt;BR /&gt; Aunt Mary introduced us, and it's truly a match made in heaven."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Family Prayer To The Holy Family&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; O Heavenly Father, our loving God,&lt;BR /&gt; you have given us the Holy Family as our patron to bless and guide our&lt;BR /&gt; families&lt;BR /&gt; that the fruit of the Holy Spirit - love, joy, peace, patience, kindness,&lt;BR /&gt; goodness, faithfulness, humility, and self-control -&lt;BR /&gt; shall reign in our homes.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; As husbands and wives, teach us to love our spouses more than ever.&lt;BR /&gt; As parents, give us wisdom and knowledge in rearing our offsprings&lt;BR /&gt; to be responsible and successful Christians forever.&lt;BR /&gt; As brothers and sisters, may we learn to care and support for one another&lt;BR /&gt; and be of inspiration to each other.&lt;BR /&gt; As children, teach us to be obedient&lt;BR /&gt; just as Jesus showed obedience and respect to Mary and Joseph.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; As Christians, melt us, mold us, fill us, and use us,&lt;BR /&gt; in spreading the good news in our community&lt;BR /&gt; that they may see Christ in us.&lt;BR /&gt; When trials come, help us to face them with trusting faith&lt;BR /&gt; and confidently hope that all things work for good for those who love God.&lt;BR /&gt; May we have a happy holy family forever through Jesus, Mary, and Joseph,&lt;BR /&gt; our miraculous patron, the adorable Holy Family. Amen.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; - - -&lt;BR /&gt; Galatians 5:22-23 - The Spirit produces love, joy, peace, patience,&lt;BR /&gt; kindness, goodness, faithfulness, humility, and self-control. There is no&lt;BR /&gt; law against such things as these.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt;&lt;/P&gt;</description>
    <pubDate>Sun, 11 Nov 2012 03:06:34 GMT</pubDate>
    <dc:creator>gloriajean</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2012-11-11T03:06:34Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Sunday's Positive Thread</title>
      <link>https://community.qvc.com/t5/Community-Chat/Sunday-s-Positive-Thread/m-p/268507#M115987</link>
      <description>&lt;P&gt;Faith lifts us from the realm of the impossible to the possible. Lord,&lt;BR /&gt; thank you&lt;BR /&gt; for the gift of Faith. It fills the shadows in my life with sunshine and&lt;BR /&gt; removes&lt;BR /&gt; the despair of hopelessness.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; S C R I P T U R E F O R T H E D A Y&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "The high priest questioned them, saying, 'We gave you strict orders not to&lt;BR /&gt; teach in this name, yet here you have filled Jerusalem with your teaching&lt;BR /&gt; and you are determined to bring this man's blood on us.' But Peter and the&lt;BR /&gt; apostles answered, "We must obey God rather than any human authority."&lt;BR /&gt; ~Acts 5:27-29&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; M E D I T A T I O N F O R T H E D A Y&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Pride can stand sentinel at the door of the heart and shut out the love of&lt;BR /&gt; God. God dwells with the humble and the obedient. Obedience to God's will&lt;BR /&gt; is the key that unlocks the door. We cannot obey God to the best of our&lt;BR /&gt; ability without in time realizing God's love and responding to that love.&lt;BR /&gt; The rough stone steps of obedience can lead up to where the mosaic floor of&lt;BR /&gt; love and joy is laid. Where God's spirit is, there is our home.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; P R A Y E R F O R T H E D A Y&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; I pray that God may make a home in my humble and obedient heart. I pray&lt;BR /&gt; that I may obey God's guidance to the best of my ability.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Hello my friends! Sometimes I wonder if I should just send out this thread&lt;BR /&gt; once during the weekend, what do you think? Today was a very beautiful day&lt;BR /&gt; and we went to my sister, Deil's for lunch - which she made a delicious&lt;BR /&gt; lasagna and pumpkin pie! Had a wonderful visit with her - and we left for&lt;BR /&gt; home at around 4 PM - hit fog on the way, then called Lori who was stuck in&lt;BR /&gt; another town where she did massages for quilters all day - the fog there is&lt;BR /&gt; so thick, she thought not safe to drive home in. Now it's so thick here&lt;BR /&gt; too, so it's not safe for us to go pick up her dog either. He plans on&lt;BR /&gt; going there early in the morning to let him out again. When you read this -&lt;BR /&gt; please say a prayer for safety! It was a true blessing we left my sister's&lt;BR /&gt; when we did and not any later! Praying for all your intentions and thanks&lt;BR /&gt; for your prayers for us and Sammy! He appreciates all prayers, too!!!&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Ideals&lt;BR /&gt; Remember that ideals&lt;BR /&gt; are like stars up in the sky,&lt;BR /&gt; You can never really reach them,&lt;BR /&gt; hanging in the heavens high....&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; But like the mighty mariner&lt;BR /&gt; who sailed the storm-tossed sea,&lt;BR /&gt; And used the stars to chart his course&lt;BR /&gt; with skill and certainty,&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; You too can chart your course in life&lt;BR /&gt; with high ideals and love,&lt;BR /&gt; For high ideals are like the stars&lt;BR /&gt; that light the sky above....&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; You cannot ever reach them,&lt;BR /&gt; but lift your heart up high&lt;BR /&gt; And your life will be as shining&lt;BR /&gt; as the stars up in the sky.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; ~ Helen Steiner Rice ~&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Toddlers' Property Laws&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 1. If I like it, it's mine.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 2. If it's in my hand, it's mine.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 3. If I can take it from you, it's mine.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 4. If I had it a little while ago, it's mine.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 5. If it's mine, it must never appear to be yours in any way.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 6. If I'm doing or building something, all the pieces are mine.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 7. If it looks like mine, it is mine.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 8. If I saw it first, it's mine.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 9. If you are playing with something and you put it down, it automatically&lt;BR /&gt; becomes mine.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 10 If it's broken, it's yours.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; JUST CALL UPON HIM&lt;BR /&gt; -- Author Unknown&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The boy walked along the ocean shore . . . trying not to stray. He looked up&lt;BR /&gt; to his father saying, "Dad, I want to play."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; His father looked upon him, with love showing in his eyes. "Do what you want&lt;BR /&gt; to, my son . . . but do not leave my side."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "I would never leave you Daddy, I love you way too much." But the boy took a&lt;BR /&gt; step away, out of his father's range of touch.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; He walked through the surf, the waves tickling one toe. "If I take one more&lt;BR /&gt; step in . . ." he thought, "Father will never know."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; His father called out to him, "Son, to me remain true!" The boy thought with&lt;BR /&gt; glee . . . "At the moment I don't need you!"&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; His father felt a sadness, but he held his tongue. Sometimes lessons need to&lt;BR /&gt; be learned . . . even when so young.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The boy stepped out a little further . . . the water covering his waist. His&lt;BR /&gt; father spoke with urgency . . . his father spoke with haste.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "My son, come back to me," he said, "The day is almost done!" "Not yet,&lt;BR /&gt; Dad," the boy yelled, "I'm having too much fun!"&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; But the boy did not have his father's insight so he could not yet tell, The&lt;BR /&gt; tide was coming in fast . . . there would be no time to yell.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "Father!" he tried to scream, as the water covered his head. "I need you&lt;BR /&gt; now, Daddy!" was what the boy had said.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; And in a single instant his father was by his side. "I thought you left me,&lt;BR /&gt; Daddy . . . I thought you went to hide."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The father looked upon his son . . . a tear streaming down his cheek. The&lt;BR /&gt; boy looked upon his father . . . and cried the sobs of the meek.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "I would never leave you son . . . for I love you just the same." "I was&lt;BR /&gt; only waiting . . . for you to call upon my name."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; LESSONS ON LIFE&lt;BR /&gt; Author Unknown&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; There was a man who had four sons. He wanted his sons to learn not to&lt;BR /&gt; judge things too quickly. So he sent them each on a quest, in turn, to&lt;BR /&gt; go and look at a pear tree that was a great distance away.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The first son went in the winter, the second in the spring, the third&lt;BR /&gt; in summer, and the youngest son in the fall.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; When they had all gone and come back, he called them together to&lt;BR /&gt; describe what they had seen.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The first son said that the tree was ugly, bent, and twisted.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The second son said no it was covered with green buds and full of&lt;BR /&gt; promise.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The third son disagreed; he said it was laden with blossoms that&lt;BR /&gt; smelled so sweet and looked so beautiful, it was the most graceful&lt;BR /&gt; thing he had ever seen.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The last son disagreed with all of them; he said it was ripe and&lt;BR /&gt; drooping with fruit, full of life and fulfillment.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The man then explained to his sons that they were all right, because&lt;BR /&gt; they had each seen but only one season in the tree's life.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; He told them that you cannot judge a tree, or a person, by only one&lt;BR /&gt; season, and that the essence of who they are and the pleasure, joy,&lt;BR /&gt; and love that come from that life can only be measured at the end,&lt;BR /&gt; when all the seasons are up.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; If you give up when it's winter, you will miss the promise of your&lt;BR /&gt; spring, the beauty of your summer, fulfillment of your fall.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Moral:&lt;BR /&gt; Don't let the pain of one season destroy the joy of all the rest.&lt;BR /&gt; Don't judge life by one difficult season.&lt;BR /&gt; Persevere through the difficult patches and better times are sure to&lt;BR /&gt; come some time or later.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; M A D E I N H E A V E N&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Consumed by my loss, I didn't notice the hardness of the pew where I sat.&lt;BR /&gt; I was at the funeral of my dearest friend - my mother. She finally had&lt;BR /&gt; lost her long battle with cancer. The hurt was so intense, I found it&lt;BR /&gt; hard to breathe at times.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Always supportive, Mother clapped loudest at my school plays, held a box&lt;BR /&gt; of tissues while listening to my first heartbreak, comforted me at my&lt;BR /&gt; father's death, encouraged me in college, and prayed for me my entire life.&lt;BR /&gt; When Mother's illness was diagnosed, my sister had a new baby and my&lt;BR /&gt; brother had recently married his childhood sweetheart, so it fell on me,&lt;BR /&gt; the 27-year-old middle child without entanglements, to take care of her.&lt;BR /&gt; I counted it an honor. "What now, Lord?" I asked sitting in church. My&lt;BR /&gt; life stretched out before me as an empty abyss. My brother sat stoically&lt;BR /&gt; with his face toward the cross while clutching his wife's hand. My sister&lt;BR /&gt; sat slumped against her husband's shoulder, his arms around her as she&lt;BR /&gt; cradled their child.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; All so deeply grieving, no one noticed I sat alone. My place had been our&lt;BR /&gt; mother, preparing her meals, helping her walk, taking her to the doctor,&lt;BR /&gt; seeing to her medication, reading the Bible together. Now she was with the&lt;BR /&gt; Lord. My work was finished, and I was alone. I heard a door open and&lt;BR /&gt; slam at the back of the church. Quick footsteps hurried along the carpeted&lt;BR /&gt; floor. An exasperated young man looked around briefly and then sat next&lt;BR /&gt; to me. He folded his hands and placed them on his lap. His eyes were&lt;BR /&gt; brimming with tears. He began to sniffle.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "I'm late," he explained, though no explanation was necessary. After&lt;BR /&gt; several eulogies, he leaned over and commented, "Why do they keep calling&lt;BR /&gt; Mary by the name of 'Margaret'? "Oh" "Because that was her name, Margaret.&lt;BR /&gt; Never Mary. No one called her 'Mary,'" I whispered. I wondered why this&lt;BR /&gt; person couldn't have sat on the other side of the church. He interrupted&lt;BR /&gt; my grieving with his tears and fidgeting. Who was this stranger anyway?&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "No, that isn't correct," he insisted, as several people glanced over at us&lt;BR /&gt; whispering, "Her name is Mary, Mary Peters. "That isn't who this is, I&lt;BR /&gt; replied." "Isn't this the Lutheran church?"&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "No, the Lutheran church is across the street." "Oh." "I believe you're&lt;BR /&gt; at the wrong funeral, Sir." The solemnness of the occasion mixed with the&lt;BR /&gt; realization of the man's mistake bubbled up inside me and came out as&lt;BR /&gt; laughter. I cupped my hands over my face, hoping it would be interpreted as&lt;BR /&gt; sobs. The creaking pew gave me away. Sharp looks from other mourners&lt;BR /&gt; only made the situation seem more hilarious. I peeked at the bewildered,&lt;BR /&gt; misguided man seated beside me. He was laughing, too, as he glanced&lt;BR /&gt; around, deciding it was too late for an uneventful exit. I imagined Mother&lt;BR /&gt; laughing. At the final "Amen," we darted out a door and into the parking&lt;BR /&gt; lot. "I do believe we'll be the talk of the town," he smiled. He said his&lt;BR /&gt; name was Rick and since he had missed his aunt's funeral, asked me out for&lt;BR /&gt; a cup of coffee.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; That afternoon began a lifelong journey for me with this man&lt;BR /&gt; who attended the wrong funeral, but was in the right place. A year after&lt;BR /&gt; our meeting, we were married at a country church where he was the assistant&lt;BR /&gt; pastor. This time we both arrived at the same church, right on time. In&lt;BR /&gt; my time of sorrow, God gave me laughter. In place of loneliness, gave me&lt;BR /&gt; love. This past June we celebrated our twenty-second wedding anniversary.&lt;BR /&gt; Whenever anyone asks us how we met, Rick tells them, "Her mother and my&lt;BR /&gt; Aunt Mary introduced us, and it's truly a match made in heaven."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Family Prayer To The Holy Family&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; O Heavenly Father, our loving God,&lt;BR /&gt; you have given us the Holy Family as our patron to bless and guide our&lt;BR /&gt; families&lt;BR /&gt; that the fruit of the Holy Spirit - love, joy, peace, patience, kindness,&lt;BR /&gt; goodness, faithfulness, humility, and self-control -&lt;BR /&gt; shall reign in our homes.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; As husbands and wives, teach us to love our spouses more than ever.&lt;BR /&gt; As parents, give us wisdom and knowledge in rearing our offsprings&lt;BR /&gt; to be responsible and successful Christians forever.&lt;BR /&gt; As brothers and sisters, may we learn to care and support for one another&lt;BR /&gt; and be of inspiration to each other.&lt;BR /&gt; As children, teach us to be obedient&lt;BR /&gt; just as Jesus showed obedience and respect to Mary and Joseph.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; As Christians, melt us, mold us, fill us, and use us,&lt;BR /&gt; in spreading the good news in our community&lt;BR /&gt; that they may see Christ in us.&lt;BR /&gt; When trials come, help us to face them with trusting faith&lt;BR /&gt; and confidently hope that all things work for good for those who love God.&lt;BR /&gt; May we have a happy holy family forever through Jesus, Mary, and Joseph,&lt;BR /&gt; our miraculous patron, the adorable Holy Family. Amen.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; - - -&lt;BR /&gt; Galatians 5:22-23 - The Spirit produces love, joy, peace, patience,&lt;BR /&gt; kindness, goodness, faithfulness, humility, and self-control. There is no&lt;BR /&gt; law against such things as these.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt;&lt;/P&gt;</description>
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