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Should I or shouldnt I?

Shorty2U — Wed, 08 Mar 2017 05:36:31 GMT

Does anyone here have tattoos? I am debating getting 1 for sure (maybe 2). Should I?

I am 95% sure.. lol but not 100%.

Ever since the tv show Revenge was on (which has since ended) I wanted to get a double infinity tattoo. Because the lead actress and her dad on the show, had a bond like my dad and I (without the drama and my dad wasn't missing for years of course like hers!)) and that was their symbol on the show.

When my dad died I thought of it more, and not just for that but the double infinity of love for my "entire" family.

So anyway I was telling my one granddaughter this (who is 19) and she said everyone is getting infinity signs, its so cliche' (lol)

SO she suggested her and I go together and each get a tattoo that says "In My Life I Love You More" (Cue the Beatles song and her and I have a special bond as grandmother and grandaughter of course, but we have a special bond over music too, specifically our love for The Beatles!).

So I'm actually thinking of getting a tattoo (maybe both I mentioned) but for sure if I do getting the latter one with her. I think it would be cool and fun!

We also want them in places that don't show such as the upper side of our back or on the rib (but I'm not keen on the rib b.c too much of me will be showing for that artist to do there lol). You see, I don't want it to show when I dress up. She doesn't want it to show due to "when she works in her future profession" after college because employer's may judge.

PS) I asked my son if they hurt. He said it feels like when you get your blood taken? Well anyway if I can deal with shots in my spine for pain I guess I can deal with a tat needle! lol.

PSS) DH is not a fan of tattoos but he doesn't say don't get one (of course!).

Re: Should I or shouldnt I?

SydneyH — Wed, 08 Mar 2017 05:42:47 GMT

If you want one, nobody here can talk you out it. As usual there are pros and cons to consider when getting a tattoo.

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mamaslittlepotatoe — Wed, 08 Mar 2017 05:54:59 GMT

I say once you're 100% positive, then go for it! I'm sure you won't be sorry. 😊

I have two pretty small ones that can be seen when I want them to be and hidden when I don't want them to be seen. I got them on separate occasions but I thought about it first for at least two years before I got each one -- and I'm not sorry at all. I have a third one in mind and will probably get it within a year.

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StraytoStay — Wed, 08 Mar 2017 05:55:28 GMT

I don't have a tattoo but I'd get one if I trusted the artist and it was a design I wouldn't tire of. Go for it!

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Lovingq — Wed, 08 Mar 2017 06:06:43 GMT

@Shorty2U If I was going to have it done I would make sure of the following. That the tattoo operator has a current business license. That he does not reuse his needles.That his parlor is very clean That he or she does not have the sniffles or a cough during your scheduled appt, that the ink is not carcinogenic. All reasons why I never had one done but hey that's just me. The infinity symbol sounds very cute if that's what you'd like to get. I remember it from that show you mentioned

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sissel — Wed, 08 Mar 2017 06:56:37 GMT

Think you are a Benley car or some high end car that you own.

would you put a bumper sticker on the car? Do you really need someone to wriite on you? Do you have a short memory that you need to write on your body because you cant remember? Just think, really putting something on your body to remind you because you can't forget or whatever, it's a lifetime. Guys hate when girls do this, really do you need this?

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sissel — Wed, 08 Mar 2017 06:59:49 GMT

If you really want this before getting the tattoo just get a sharpie & draw on yourself a few days in & get the feel. Then you will know.

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JeanLouiseFinch — Wed, 08 Mar 2017 09:21:37 GMT

I really don't see the big deal or dilemma other than I wouldn't get something super trendy. You never want to put a b/f or g/f image or name on you either.

You want to do it, it'll be something small and hidden, so what's stopping you? Go do it and be happy about it. I have one on my ankle, took about 15 minutes to complete, and I'll tell you, it did hurt. Areas that are less cushioned will hurt more. I'm thinking about getting something floral my foot. The drawback for me isn't that it'll be seen or what people will think, but the pain involved and how long I have to put up with it.

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withaK — Wed, 08 Mar 2017 09:41:03 GMT

I don't think you are totally convinced yet. I don't have any myself-- I am terrified of needles. But the idea of drawing something with a Sharpie is good. There are temporary tattoos you can get as well. It would like a test drive. Good luck !

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mollybgood — Wed, 08 Mar 2017 10:03:48 GMT

If I had the nerve to get some, I would get small ones on my ankle bones.

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Big Sister — Wed, 08 Mar 2017 10:06:17 GMT

Honestly, I would be afraid of an infection.

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Pook — Wed, 08 Mar 2017 11:27:42 GMT

I say go for it! I have several and I didn't think they hurt - just slight pinches and if you follow instructions will not get infections. The health risks are practically nonexistant. I don't think you would be going to an artist who is not licensed and following all the guidelines. In this day and age tattoo artists use disposable needles and new ink pallets for each customer. Everything is prepackaged.

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cotton4me — Wed, 08 Mar 2017 11:38:12 GMT

My only concerns would be the health factors – reactions to the ink, infections, etc. Based on my history, I’m sure my body would react to the ink which would create problems with my immune system and/or infections.

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Plaid Pants2 — Wed, 08 Mar 2017 11:51:42 GMT

I say go for it!!!!!

It's YOUR body, decorate it however you see fit!

Do NOT let ANYONE try and talk you out of it!

YOUR CHOICE, YOUR DECISION!!!!!

Just remember, tattoos are permanent.

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Desertdi — Wed, 08 Mar 2017 11:48:14 GMT

NOT if you are planning to gain or lose weight..............

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KingstonsMom — Wed, 08 Mar 2017 12:02:21 GMT

@Shorty2U

As the proud owner of 10 tattoos that you would never see unless I want you to, I say wait for that other 5%. Be 100% sure!

As for pain, to me it's more of a burning sensation, since the needle is piercing the skin at a rapid fire pace, but none were unbearably painful.

Most artists will tell you that if you need a 'break' while they're doing them, just let them know.

I love my DD's signature tattoo (first name) the most! It's not just her name, but her actual signature.

That said, I'm glad that I didn't give her a really long first name, like Antoinette, LOL!

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KingstonsMom — Wed, 08 Mar 2017 12:07:12 GMT

@Desertdi wrote:
NOT if you are planning to gain or lose weight..............

I guess it depends on how much of a weight gain/loss.

I lost 25 lbs. for unexplained reasons about 2 years ago and it didn't make any difference in the look of any of mine.

But that's just my experience. The elasticity of everyone's skin is different.

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phoenixbrd — Wed, 08 Mar 2017 12:24:24 GMT

WAIT....until you are 100%

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Justice4all — Wed, 08 Mar 2017 12:42:31 GMT

@Bird mama had a big tattoo thread - before, during and after her tattoo, with pictures! Very interesting. Me, never.

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qualitygal — Wed, 08 Mar 2017 12:37:29 GMT

If you're of legal age, you get to decide.