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    <title>topic Wednesday's Positive Thread in Community Chat</title>
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    <description>&lt;P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt; Thoughts of the past can not hurt you without your consent. Lord,&lt;BR /&gt; help me to learn from my past, not live there by continually bringing&lt;BR /&gt; it into the present.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Scripture for the day:&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "In the beginning when God created the heavens and the earth, the&lt;BR /&gt; earth was a formless void and darkness covered the face of the deep,&lt;BR /&gt; while a wind from God swept over the face of the waters. Then God&lt;BR /&gt; said, "Let there be light"; and there was light." ~Genesis 1:1-3&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Meditation for the day:&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; God made the ordered world out of chaos and set the stars in their&lt;BR /&gt; courses and made each plant to know its season.. God can bring peace&lt;BR /&gt; and order out of our own private chaos if we let God. God is&lt;BR /&gt; watching over us, too, to bless us and care for us. Out of the darkness,&lt;BR /&gt; God&lt;BR /&gt; is leading us to light, out of unrest to rest, out of disorder to&lt;BR /&gt; order, out of faults and failure to success. We belong to God and&lt;BR /&gt; our affairs are God's affairs and can be ordered by God if we are&lt;BR /&gt; willing.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Prayer for the day:&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; I pray that I may be led out of disorder into order. I pray that I&lt;BR /&gt; may be led out of failure into success.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Hello my friends! Today was a nice, relaxing one - and the last day off for&lt;BR /&gt; my DH - and he got weeding done, we had our own carrots for supper with&lt;BR /&gt; drummies on the grill. Our carrots are really nice and big now! They taste&lt;BR /&gt; so nice right out of the garden and in the pan to cook! We did get a big&lt;BR /&gt; blessing today - a man came to the door selling frozen natural beef and pork&lt;BR /&gt; and it was very good quality and boneless, and I'm sure we saved ourselves a&lt;BR /&gt; lot of money - made in Ill! And also this should last us at least six&lt;BR /&gt; months - so now I won't have to buy meat with our groceries for a long time.&lt;BR /&gt; He came when our freezer only has chicken in it and we both agreed it would&lt;BR /&gt; be good to get this. Then he gave us his website and card and we can always&lt;BR /&gt; order more when needed on line and he delivers. We don't eat red meat that&lt;BR /&gt; often, so this will last us a long time! Lori is celebrating her 10th year&lt;BR /&gt; in her business and she is going to get businesses and restaurants etc.&lt;BR /&gt; donate something, like 10% off, or a gift card etc. and every week in Sept.&lt;BR /&gt; she will do a drawing for it.&lt;BR /&gt; Imagine 10 years already she's owned her own Massage business! I didn't&lt;BR /&gt; know it was that long! She has clients yet from the very beginning when she&lt;BR /&gt; was just starting out fresh from school! Praying for you all, and thanks&lt;BR /&gt; for your prayers for us!&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; ROSE&lt;BR /&gt; Author Unknown&lt;BR /&gt; August 11, 2009&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The first day of school our professor introduced himself and&lt;BR /&gt; challenged us to get to know someone we didn't already know. I stood&lt;BR /&gt; up to look around when a gentle hand touched my shoulder.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; I turned around to find a wrinkled, little old lady beaming up at me&lt;BR /&gt; with a smile that lit up her entire being. She said, "Hi handsome. My&lt;BR /&gt; name is Rose. I'm eighty-seven years old. Can I give you a hug?"&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; I laughed and enthusiastically responded, "Of course you may!" and she&lt;BR /&gt; gave me a giant squeeze." Why are you in college at such a young,&lt;BR /&gt; innocent age?" I asked.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; She jokingly replied, "I'm here to meet a rich husband, get married,&lt;BR /&gt; have a couple of children, and then retire and travel."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "No seriously," I asked. I was curious what may have motivated her to&lt;BR /&gt; be taking on this challenge at her age. "I always dreamed of having a&lt;BR /&gt; college education and now I'm getting one!" she told me. After class&lt;BR /&gt; we walked to the student union building and shared a chocolate&lt;BR /&gt; milkshake. We became instant friends.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Every day for the next three months we would leave class together and&lt;BR /&gt; talk nonstop. I was always mesmerized listening to this "time machine"&lt;BR /&gt; as she shared her wisdom and experience with me. Over the course of&lt;BR /&gt; the year, Rose became a campus icon and she easily made friends&lt;BR /&gt; wherever she went. She loved to dress up and she reveled in the&lt;BR /&gt; attention bestowed upon her from&lt;BR /&gt; the other students. She was living it up.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; At the end of the semester we invited Rose to speak at our football&lt;BR /&gt; banquet. I'll never forget what she taught us. She was introduced and&lt;BR /&gt; stepped up to the podium. As she began to deliver her prepared speech,&lt;BR /&gt; she dropped her three by five cards on the floor. Frustrated and a&lt;BR /&gt; little embarrassed she leaned into the microphone and simply said "I'm&lt;BR /&gt; sorry I'm so jittery. I gave up beer for Lent and this whiskey is&lt;BR /&gt; killing me! I'll never get my speech back in order so let me just tell&lt;BR /&gt; you what I know."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; As we laughed she cleared her throat and began: "We do not stop&lt;BR /&gt; playing because we are old; we grow old because we stop playing. There&lt;BR /&gt; are only four secrets to staying young, being happy, and achieving&lt;BR /&gt; success.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "You have to laugh and find humor every day."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "You've got to have a dream. When you lose your dreams, you die. We&lt;BR /&gt; have so many people walking around who are dead and don't even know&lt;BR /&gt; it!"&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "There is a huge difference between growing older and growing up. If&lt;BR /&gt; you are nineteen years old and lie in bed for one full year and don't&lt;BR /&gt; do one productive thing, you will turn twenty years old. If I am&lt;BR /&gt; eighty-seven years old and stay in bed for a year and never do&lt;BR /&gt; anything I will turn eighty-eight. Anybody can grow older. That&lt;BR /&gt; doesn't take any talent or ability.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The idea is to grow up by always finding the opportunity in change."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "Have no regrets. The elderly usually don't have regrets for what we&lt;BR /&gt; did, but rather for things we did not do. The only people who fear&lt;BR /&gt; death are those with regrets."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; She concluded her speech by courageously singing "The Rose." She&lt;BR /&gt; challenged each of us to study the lyrics and live them out in our&lt;BR /&gt; daily lives.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; At the years end Rose finished the college degree she had begun all&lt;BR /&gt; those years ago. One week after graduation Rose died peacefully in her&lt;BR /&gt; sleep. Over two thousand college students attended her funeral in&lt;BR /&gt; tribute to the wonderful woman who taught by example that it's never&lt;BR /&gt; too late to be all you can possibly be.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; A lesson of life:&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Read the following and have a GREAT day!&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; I was at the corner grocery store buying some early potatoes. I noticed a&lt;BR /&gt; small boy, delicate of bone and feature, ragged but clean, hungrily&lt;BR /&gt; apprising a basket of freshly picked green peas.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; I paid for my potatoes but was also drawn to the display of fresh green&lt;BR /&gt; peas. I am a pushover for creamed peas and new potatoes.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Pondering the peas, I couldn't help overhearing the conversation between Mr.&lt;BR /&gt; Miller (the store owner) and the ragged boy next to me.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 'Hello Barry, how are you today?'&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 'H'lo, Mr. Miller. Fine, thank ya. Jus' admirin' them peas. They sure look&lt;BR /&gt; good.'&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 'They are good, Barry. How's your Ma?'&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 'Fine. Gittin' stronger alla' time.'&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 'Good. Anything I can help you with?'&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 'No, Sir. Jus' admirin' th em peas.'&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 'Would you like to take some home?' asked Mr. Miller.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 'No, Sir. Got nuthin' to pay for 'em with.'&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 'Well, what have you to trade me for some of those peas?'&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 'All I got's my prize marble here.'&lt;BR /&gt; 'Is that right? Let me see it' said Miller.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 'Here 'tis. She's a dandy.'&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 'I can see that. Hmm, only thing is this one is blue and I sort of go for&lt;BR /&gt; red. Do you have a red one like this at home?' the store owner asked.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 'Not zackley but almost.'&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 'Tell you what. Take this sack of peas home with you and next trip this way&lt;BR /&gt; let me look at that red marble'. Mr. Miller told the boy..&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 'Sure will. Thanks Mr. Miller.'&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Mrs. Miller, who had been standing nearby, came over to help me.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; With a smile she said, 'There are two other boys like him in our community,&lt;BR /&gt; all three are in very poor circumstances. Jim just loves to bargain with&lt;BR /&gt; them for peas, apples, tomatoes, or whatever.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; When they come back with their red marbles, and they always do, he decides&lt;BR /&gt; he doesn't like red after all and he sends them home with a bag of produce&lt;BR /&gt; for a green marble or an orange one, when they come on their next trip to&lt;BR /&gt; the store.'&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; I left the store smiling to myself, impressed with this man. A short time&lt;BR /&gt; later I moved to Colorado , but I never forgot the story of this man, the&lt;BR /&gt; boys, and their bartering for marbles.&lt;BR /&gt; Several years went by, each more rapid than the previous one. Just recently&lt;BR /&gt; I had occasion to visit some old friends in that Idaho community and while I&lt;BR /&gt; was there learned that Mr. Miller had died. They were having his visitation&lt;BR /&gt; that evening and knowing my friends wanted to go, I agreed to accompany&lt;BR /&gt; them. Upon arrival at the mortuary we fell into line to meet the relatives&lt;BR /&gt; of the deceased and to offer whatever words of comfort we could.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Ahead of us in line were three young men. One was in an army uniform and the&lt;BR /&gt; other two wore nice haircuts, dark suits and white shirts...all very&lt;BR /&gt; professional looking. They approached Mrs. Miller, standing composed and&lt;BR /&gt; smiling by her husband's casket.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Each of the young men hugged her, kissed her on the cheek, spoke briefly&lt;BR /&gt; with her and moved on to the casket Her misty light blue eyes followed them&lt;BR /&gt; as, one by one, each young man stopped briefly and placed his own warm hand&lt;BR /&gt; over the cold pale hand in the casket. Each left the mortuary awkwardly,&lt;BR /&gt; wiping his eyes.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Our turn came to meet Mrs Miller. I told her who I was and reminded her of&lt;BR /&gt; the story from those many years ago and what she had told me about her&lt;BR /&gt; husband's bartering for marbles. With her eyes glistening, she took my hand&lt;BR /&gt; and led me to the casket.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 'Those three young men who just left were the boys I told you about.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; They just told me how they appreciated the things Jim 'traded' them. Now, at&lt;BR /&gt; last, when Jim could not change his mind about color or size. They came to&lt;BR /&gt; pay their debt.'&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 'We've never had a great deal of the wealth of this world,' she confided,&lt;BR /&gt; 'but right now, Jim would consider himself the richest man in Idaho.'&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; With loving gentleness she lifted the lifeless fingers of her deceased&lt;BR /&gt; husband. Resting underneath were three exquisitely shined red marbles.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The Moral: We will not be remembered by our words, but by our kind deeds.&lt;BR /&gt; Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but by the moments that take&lt;BR /&gt; our breath.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Today I wish you a day of ordinary miracles ~ A fresh pot of coffee you&lt;BR /&gt; didn't make yourself. An unexpected phone call from an old friend. Green&lt;BR /&gt; stoplights on your way to work. The fastest line at the grocery store. A&lt;BR /&gt; good sing-along song on the radio. Your keys found right where you left&lt;BR /&gt; them.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; THE MOST IMPORTANT BODY PART&lt;BR /&gt; Author Unknown&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; My mother used to ask me what is the most important part of the body and&lt;BR /&gt; through the years I would take a guess at what I thought was the correct&lt;BR /&gt; answer. When I was younger I thought sound was very important to us as&lt;BR /&gt; humans so I said my ears mommy. She said "No, many people are deaf. But you&lt;BR /&gt; keep thinking about it and I will ask you again soon."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Several years passed before she asked me again. Since my last attempt I&lt;BR /&gt; contemplated a correct answer. So I told her "Mommy, sight is very important&lt;BR /&gt; to everybody, so it must be our eyes." She looked at me and told me that I&lt;BR /&gt; was learning fast but the answer is not correct because there are many&lt;BR /&gt; people who are blind.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Stumped again I continued my quest for knowledge and over the years she&lt;BR /&gt; asked me a couple more times and always the same answer "No. But you are&lt;BR /&gt; getting smarter every year my young child."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Then last year my Grandpa died. Everybody was hurt. Everybody was crying.&lt;BR /&gt; Even my father cried. I remember that especially because it is only the&lt;BR /&gt; second time I saw him cry. My Mom looked at me when it was our turn to say&lt;BR /&gt; our final good-bye to Grandpa. She asked me "Do you know the most important&lt;BR /&gt; body part yet my son?" And I was shocked she asked me this now. I always&lt;BR /&gt; thought this was a game between her and me. She saw the confusion on my&lt;BR /&gt; face and told me "This question is very important. It shows that you have&lt;BR /&gt; really lived in your life. For every body part you gave me in the past I&lt;BR /&gt; have told you that it was wrong and given you an example why. But today is&lt;BR /&gt; the day you need to learn this important lesson."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; She looked down at me like only a mother can. I saw her eyes well up with&lt;BR /&gt; tears. She said, "Son the most important body part is your shoulder." Was&lt;BR /&gt; it because it held up my head? She replied, "No, because it can hold the&lt;BR /&gt; head of a friend or loved one when they cry. Everybody needs a shoulder to&lt;BR /&gt; cry on sometime in life my son. I only hope that you have enough love and&lt;BR /&gt; friends that you will always have a shoulder to cry on when you need it."&lt;BR /&gt; Then and there I knew the most important body part was not selfish, it was&lt;BR /&gt; sympathetic to the pain of OTHERS.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; You are a friend and whenever you want you can cry on my shoulder!!! People&lt;BR /&gt; will forget what you said. People will forget what you did, but People will&lt;BR /&gt; never forget how you made them feel.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; A Prayer To the Father in Thanks&lt;BR /&gt; Eternal Father, we thank You for Your great love. You give the world the&lt;BR /&gt; best of Yourself, the mirror of Your perfect transparency, the splendor of&lt;BR /&gt; Your very being -- Your Son Jesus.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; We thank you for giving Jesus as our Savior, not as tyrant but as friend,&lt;BR /&gt; not as superior but as brother.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Help us open our Hearts to His light without fear of being overwhelmed but&lt;BR /&gt; exultant with the joy that comes from this light upon all who accept it with&lt;BR /&gt; gladness. Amen.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt;&lt;/P&gt;</description>
    <pubDate>Wed, 25 Jul 2012 01:43:10 GMT</pubDate>
    <dc:creator>gloriajean</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2012-07-25T01:43:10Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Wednesday's Positive Thread</title>
      <link>https://community.qvc.com/t5/Community-Chat/Wednesday-s-Positive-Thread/m-p/229879#M101508</link>
      <description>&lt;P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt; Thoughts of the past can not hurt you without your consent. Lord,&lt;BR /&gt; help me to learn from my past, not live there by continually bringing&lt;BR /&gt; it into the present.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Scripture for the day:&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "In the beginning when God created the heavens and the earth, the&lt;BR /&gt; earth was a formless void and darkness covered the face of the deep,&lt;BR /&gt; while a wind from God swept over the face of the waters. Then God&lt;BR /&gt; said, "Let there be light"; and there was light." ~Genesis 1:1-3&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Meditation for the day:&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; God made the ordered world out of chaos and set the stars in their&lt;BR /&gt; courses and made each plant to know its season.. God can bring peace&lt;BR /&gt; and order out of our own private chaos if we let God. God is&lt;BR /&gt; watching over us, too, to bless us and care for us. Out of the darkness,&lt;BR /&gt; God&lt;BR /&gt; is leading us to light, out of unrest to rest, out of disorder to&lt;BR /&gt; order, out of faults and failure to success. We belong to God and&lt;BR /&gt; our affairs are God's affairs and can be ordered by God if we are&lt;BR /&gt; willing.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Prayer for the day:&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; I pray that I may be led out of disorder into order. I pray that I&lt;BR /&gt; may be led out of failure into success.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Hello my friends! Today was a nice, relaxing one - and the last day off for&lt;BR /&gt; my DH - and he got weeding done, we had our own carrots for supper with&lt;BR /&gt; drummies on the grill. Our carrots are really nice and big now! They taste&lt;BR /&gt; so nice right out of the garden and in the pan to cook! We did get a big&lt;BR /&gt; blessing today - a man came to the door selling frozen natural beef and pork&lt;BR /&gt; and it was very good quality and boneless, and I'm sure we saved ourselves a&lt;BR /&gt; lot of money - made in Ill! And also this should last us at least six&lt;BR /&gt; months - so now I won't have to buy meat with our groceries for a long time.&lt;BR /&gt; He came when our freezer only has chicken in it and we both agreed it would&lt;BR /&gt; be good to get this. Then he gave us his website and card and we can always&lt;BR /&gt; order more when needed on line and he delivers. We don't eat red meat that&lt;BR /&gt; often, so this will last us a long time! Lori is celebrating her 10th year&lt;BR /&gt; in her business and she is going to get businesses and restaurants etc.&lt;BR /&gt; donate something, like 10% off, or a gift card etc. and every week in Sept.&lt;BR /&gt; she will do a drawing for it.&lt;BR /&gt; Imagine 10 years already she's owned her own Massage business! I didn't&lt;BR /&gt; know it was that long! She has clients yet from the very beginning when she&lt;BR /&gt; was just starting out fresh from school! Praying for you all, and thanks&lt;BR /&gt; for your prayers for us!&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; ROSE&lt;BR /&gt; Author Unknown&lt;BR /&gt; August 11, 2009&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The first day of school our professor introduced himself and&lt;BR /&gt; challenged us to get to know someone we didn't already know. I stood&lt;BR /&gt; up to look around when a gentle hand touched my shoulder.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; I turned around to find a wrinkled, little old lady beaming up at me&lt;BR /&gt; with a smile that lit up her entire being. She said, "Hi handsome. My&lt;BR /&gt; name is Rose. I'm eighty-seven years old. Can I give you a hug?"&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; I laughed and enthusiastically responded, "Of course you may!" and she&lt;BR /&gt; gave me a giant squeeze." Why are you in college at such a young,&lt;BR /&gt; innocent age?" I asked.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; She jokingly replied, "I'm here to meet a rich husband, get married,&lt;BR /&gt; have a couple of children, and then retire and travel."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "No seriously," I asked. I was curious what may have motivated her to&lt;BR /&gt; be taking on this challenge at her age. "I always dreamed of having a&lt;BR /&gt; college education and now I'm getting one!" she told me. After class&lt;BR /&gt; we walked to the student union building and shared a chocolate&lt;BR /&gt; milkshake. We became instant friends.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Every day for the next three months we would leave class together and&lt;BR /&gt; talk nonstop. I was always mesmerized listening to this "time machine"&lt;BR /&gt; as she shared her wisdom and experience with me. Over the course of&lt;BR /&gt; the year, Rose became a campus icon and she easily made friends&lt;BR /&gt; wherever she went. She loved to dress up and she reveled in the&lt;BR /&gt; attention bestowed upon her from&lt;BR /&gt; the other students. She was living it up.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; At the end of the semester we invited Rose to speak at our football&lt;BR /&gt; banquet. I'll never forget what she taught us. She was introduced and&lt;BR /&gt; stepped up to the podium. As she began to deliver her prepared speech,&lt;BR /&gt; she dropped her three by five cards on the floor. Frustrated and a&lt;BR /&gt; little embarrassed she leaned into the microphone and simply said "I'm&lt;BR /&gt; sorry I'm so jittery. I gave up beer for Lent and this whiskey is&lt;BR /&gt; killing me! I'll never get my speech back in order so let me just tell&lt;BR /&gt; you what I know."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; As we laughed she cleared her throat and began: "We do not stop&lt;BR /&gt; playing because we are old; we grow old because we stop playing. There&lt;BR /&gt; are only four secrets to staying young, being happy, and achieving&lt;BR /&gt; success.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "You have to laugh and find humor every day."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "You've got to have a dream. When you lose your dreams, you die. We&lt;BR /&gt; have so many people walking around who are dead and don't even know&lt;BR /&gt; it!"&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "There is a huge difference between growing older and growing up. If&lt;BR /&gt; you are nineteen years old and lie in bed for one full year and don't&lt;BR /&gt; do one productive thing, you will turn twenty years old. If I am&lt;BR /&gt; eighty-seven years old and stay in bed for a year and never do&lt;BR /&gt; anything I will turn eighty-eight. Anybody can grow older. That&lt;BR /&gt; doesn't take any talent or ability.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The idea is to grow up by always finding the opportunity in change."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "Have no regrets. The elderly usually don't have regrets for what we&lt;BR /&gt; did, but rather for things we did not do. The only people who fear&lt;BR /&gt; death are those with regrets."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; She concluded her speech by courageously singing "The Rose." She&lt;BR /&gt; challenged each of us to study the lyrics and live them out in our&lt;BR /&gt; daily lives.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; At the years end Rose finished the college degree she had begun all&lt;BR /&gt; those years ago. One week after graduation Rose died peacefully in her&lt;BR /&gt; sleep. Over two thousand college students attended her funeral in&lt;BR /&gt; tribute to the wonderful woman who taught by example that it's never&lt;BR /&gt; too late to be all you can possibly be.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; A lesson of life:&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Read the following and have a GREAT day!&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; I was at the corner grocery store buying some early potatoes. I noticed a&lt;BR /&gt; small boy, delicate of bone and feature, ragged but clean, hungrily&lt;BR /&gt; apprising a basket of freshly picked green peas.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; I paid for my potatoes but was also drawn to the display of fresh green&lt;BR /&gt; peas. I am a pushover for creamed peas and new potatoes.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Pondering the peas, I couldn't help overhearing the conversation between Mr.&lt;BR /&gt; Miller (the store owner) and the ragged boy next to me.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 'Hello Barry, how are you today?'&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 'H'lo, Mr. Miller. Fine, thank ya. Jus' admirin' them peas. They sure look&lt;BR /&gt; good.'&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 'They are good, Barry. How's your Ma?'&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 'Fine. Gittin' stronger alla' time.'&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 'Good. Anything I can help you with?'&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 'No, Sir. Jus' admirin' th em peas.'&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 'Would you like to take some home?' asked Mr. Miller.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 'No, Sir. Got nuthin' to pay for 'em with.'&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 'Well, what have you to trade me for some of those peas?'&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 'All I got's my prize marble here.'&lt;BR /&gt; 'Is that right? Let me see it' said Miller.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 'Here 'tis. She's a dandy.'&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 'I can see that. Hmm, only thing is this one is blue and I sort of go for&lt;BR /&gt; red. Do you have a red one like this at home?' the store owner asked.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 'Not zackley but almost.'&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 'Tell you what. Take this sack of peas home with you and next trip this way&lt;BR /&gt; let me look at that red marble'. Mr. Miller told the boy..&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 'Sure will. Thanks Mr. Miller.'&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Mrs. Miller, who had been standing nearby, came over to help me.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; With a smile she said, 'There are two other boys like him in our community,&lt;BR /&gt; all three are in very poor circumstances. Jim just loves to bargain with&lt;BR /&gt; them for peas, apples, tomatoes, or whatever.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; When they come back with their red marbles, and they always do, he decides&lt;BR /&gt; he doesn't like red after all and he sends them home with a bag of produce&lt;BR /&gt; for a green marble or an orange one, when they come on their next trip to&lt;BR /&gt; the store.'&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; I left the store smiling to myself, impressed with this man. A short time&lt;BR /&gt; later I moved to Colorado , but I never forgot the story of this man, the&lt;BR /&gt; boys, and their bartering for marbles.&lt;BR /&gt; Several years went by, each more rapid than the previous one. Just recently&lt;BR /&gt; I had occasion to visit some old friends in that Idaho community and while I&lt;BR /&gt; was there learned that Mr. Miller had died. They were having his visitation&lt;BR /&gt; that evening and knowing my friends wanted to go, I agreed to accompany&lt;BR /&gt; them. Upon arrival at the mortuary we fell into line to meet the relatives&lt;BR /&gt; of the deceased and to offer whatever words of comfort we could.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Ahead of us in line were three young men. One was in an army uniform and the&lt;BR /&gt; other two wore nice haircuts, dark suits and white shirts...all very&lt;BR /&gt; professional looking. They approached Mrs. Miller, standing composed and&lt;BR /&gt; smiling by her husband's casket.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Each of the young men hugged her, kissed her on the cheek, spoke briefly&lt;BR /&gt; with her and moved on to the casket Her misty light blue eyes followed them&lt;BR /&gt; as, one by one, each young man stopped briefly and placed his own warm hand&lt;BR /&gt; over the cold pale hand in the casket. Each left the mortuary awkwardly,&lt;BR /&gt; wiping his eyes.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Our turn came to meet Mrs Miller. I told her who I was and reminded her of&lt;BR /&gt; the story from those many years ago and what she had told me about her&lt;BR /&gt; husband's bartering for marbles. With her eyes glistening, she took my hand&lt;BR /&gt; and led me to the casket.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 'Those three young men who just left were the boys I told you about.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; They just told me how they appreciated the things Jim 'traded' them. Now, at&lt;BR /&gt; last, when Jim could not change his mind about color or size. They came to&lt;BR /&gt; pay their debt.'&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 'We've never had a great deal of the wealth of this world,' she confided,&lt;BR /&gt; 'but right now, Jim would consider himself the richest man in Idaho.'&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; With loving gentleness she lifted the lifeless fingers of her deceased&lt;BR /&gt; husband. Resting underneath were three exquisitely shined red marbles.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The Moral: We will not be remembered by our words, but by our kind deeds.&lt;BR /&gt; Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but by the moments that take&lt;BR /&gt; our breath.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Today I wish you a day of ordinary miracles ~ A fresh pot of coffee you&lt;BR /&gt; didn't make yourself. An unexpected phone call from an old friend. Green&lt;BR /&gt; stoplights on your way to work. The fastest line at the grocery store. A&lt;BR /&gt; good sing-along song on the radio. Your keys found right where you left&lt;BR /&gt; them.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; THE MOST IMPORTANT BODY PART&lt;BR /&gt; Author Unknown&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; My mother used to ask me what is the most important part of the body and&lt;BR /&gt; through the years I would take a guess at what I thought was the correct&lt;BR /&gt; answer. When I was younger I thought sound was very important to us as&lt;BR /&gt; humans so I said my ears mommy. She said "No, many people are deaf. But you&lt;BR /&gt; keep thinking about it and I will ask you again soon."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Several years passed before she asked me again. Since my last attempt I&lt;BR /&gt; contemplated a correct answer. So I told her "Mommy, sight is very important&lt;BR /&gt; to everybody, so it must be our eyes." She looked at me and told me that I&lt;BR /&gt; was learning fast but the answer is not correct because there are many&lt;BR /&gt; people who are blind.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Stumped again I continued my quest for knowledge and over the years she&lt;BR /&gt; asked me a couple more times and always the same answer "No. But you are&lt;BR /&gt; getting smarter every year my young child."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Then last year my Grandpa died. Everybody was hurt. Everybody was crying.&lt;BR /&gt; Even my father cried. I remember that especially because it is only the&lt;BR /&gt; second time I saw him cry. My Mom looked at me when it was our turn to say&lt;BR /&gt; our final good-bye to Grandpa. She asked me "Do you know the most important&lt;BR /&gt; body part yet my son?" And I was shocked she asked me this now. I always&lt;BR /&gt; thought this was a game between her and me. She saw the confusion on my&lt;BR /&gt; face and told me "This question is very important. It shows that you have&lt;BR /&gt; really lived in your life. For every body part you gave me in the past I&lt;BR /&gt; have told you that it was wrong and given you an example why. But today is&lt;BR /&gt; the day you need to learn this important lesson."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; She looked down at me like only a mother can. I saw her eyes well up with&lt;BR /&gt; tears. She said, "Son the most important body part is your shoulder." Was&lt;BR /&gt; it because it held up my head? She replied, "No, because it can hold the&lt;BR /&gt; head of a friend or loved one when they cry. Everybody needs a shoulder to&lt;BR /&gt; cry on sometime in life my son. I only hope that you have enough love and&lt;BR /&gt; friends that you will always have a shoulder to cry on when you need it."&lt;BR /&gt; Then and there I knew the most important body part was not selfish, it was&lt;BR /&gt; sympathetic to the pain of OTHERS.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; You are a friend and whenever you want you can cry on my shoulder!!! People&lt;BR /&gt; will forget what you said. People will forget what you did, but People will&lt;BR /&gt; never forget how you made them feel.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; A Prayer To the Father in Thanks&lt;BR /&gt; Eternal Father, we thank You for Your great love. You give the world the&lt;BR /&gt; best of Yourself, the mirror of Your perfect transparency, the splendor of&lt;BR /&gt; Your very being -- Your Son Jesus.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; We thank you for giving Jesus as our Savior, not as tyrant but as friend,&lt;BR /&gt; not as superior but as brother.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Help us open our Hearts to His light without fear of being overwhelmed but&lt;BR /&gt; exultant with the joy that comes from this light upon all who accept it with&lt;BR /&gt; gladness. Amen.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt;&lt;/P&gt;</description>
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