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Update on My Husbands MRI

NicksmomESQ — Tue, 04 Aug 2020 00:05:04 GMT

Today my DH saw his doctor for the results of his MRI of the prostrate.Unfortunately, the results weren't good. They found a small suspicious mass.As a result he is scheduled for a biopsy next week.

My husband is a nervous wreck. I'm about ready to collapse from exhaustion.Trying to keep him calm is wearing me down.

On top of it all I wasn't allowed in the doctor's office to be by my husbands side when he got the news.They wouldn't even allow me to call in from the car right outside.DH came out in tears.It was tough for him to hear the news alone.

I'm scared that my husband is going to have a heart attack because he's so nervous.I'm so worried !! I'm also mad as heck at the doctor for not allowing me to be with my husband.I think it was cold & cruel.I have family in the medical profession & they told me the doctor could have worked it out in some way.

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Mom2Dogs — Tue, 04 Aug 2020 00:11:31 GMT

@NicksmomESQ Sorry to hear the test results were not as expected. I do not understand the policy of the doctor's office to not allow you to be with your husband. There should be ways to work these situation out...it's just not right

My husband is also one that gets worked up about health issues, I know it's difficult to deal with. We went thru a health scare a few years ago....when he is stressed he walks...A LOT....that might help your husband.

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Big Joanie — Tue, 04 Aug 2020 00:14:00 GMT

I understand .. the first night my husband got a bad prostate

diagnosise .. I was up on the interne d oing research all

night ... finally got him calmed down .. and then myself ....

he had surgery to remove .. and 10 years later he is fine ...

all test have been negative the last ten years .....Hang in

there .....

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Big Joanie — Tue, 04 Aug 2020 00:15:03 GMT

Oh yes... my husband does not handle health issues well either ....

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Jordan2 — Tue, 04 Aug 2020 00:20:58 GMT

@NicksmomESQ I am sorry the results of your husband's MRI wasn't the outcome you were hoping for. You are stronger than you know, just try to be as positive and calming for your husband as you can. Just take things one step at a time. As for not being allowed in the office every doctor is doing that so I'm not surprised. The doctor could have let you in on the conversation by phone as when you get bad news it helps to have someone with you because you don't remember everything. Good luck to you both.

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KarenQVC — Tue, 04 Aug 2020 00:53:38 GMT

@Mom2Dogs I'm so sorry. Can your husband get some anxiety medication?

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SXMGirl — Tue, 04 Aug 2020 00:54:13 GMT

@NicksmomESQ I am so sorry about his diagnosis and that you could not be with him as he heard the news. He is nervous and scared. What is important is that he gets the best medical care for the best outcome. Sending prayers to both of you.

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ECBG — Tue, 04 Aug 2020 01:01:36 GMT

@NicksmomESQ So very sorry my Dear. Remember about the virus, and you wouldn't want your DH to be exposed either.

I'm sending you prayers and angels to sit with you. DH will follow your lead, try to remain calm.

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Dinaki — Tue, 04 Aug 2020 19:05:20 GMT

@NicksmomESQ , ~~doctors can be cruel dear, they are cold hearted.~~

This is a small prayer from you to your dearest soulmate

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roeroe1005 — Tue, 04 Aug 2020 01:07:09 GMT

@NicksmomESQ,

Ugh, so sorry that your hubby's news was not good.

I hope it's something that can be taken care of w/surgery. I will be praying for him.

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Love my grandkids — Tue, 04 Aug 2020 01:13:09 GMT

@Dinaki I have never had any doctor be "cruel" to me nor to any of my loved ones.

My sister had an important med appt. recently and her DH had to wait in the car due to extreme precautions here in WA state due to the virus.

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GCR18 — Tue, 04 Aug 2020 01:18:17 GMT

A biopsy doesn't always lead to a positive cancer diagnosis. Unfortunately, the waiting won't end on biopsy day. It could take days or a week to get the results. DH needs to find a way to calm himself down. He will drive himself crazy replaying everything in his mind.

I wish him well and hope his biopsy is negative.

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on the bay — Tue, 04 Aug 2020 01:28:38 GMT

@NicksmomESQ -

I'm so sorry he and you had to go through that in that way. And to see him crying that must have been so sad. I would be mad too!

I hope that it will all be able to be treated very well.

My father had prostate cancer and recovered very well with those radioactive beads.

All my best wishes and prayers!

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Mom2Dogs — Tue, 04 Aug 2020 01:51:41 GMT

@KarenQVC ....dh's health issue was several years ago....he came thru with flying colors...it's the time inbetween results and medical intervention that he does not handle well...

thanks....

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CAcableGirl2 — Tue, 04 Aug 2020 01:54:03 GMT

@NicksmomESQ count me in on prayers for your DH to get good news on his health and for you to be able to support him in whatever he needs.

I'm sure prayers will come your way from all over the country. I'll be sending mine to you and your DH from Southern California.

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SandySparkles — Tue, 04 Aug 2020 01:58:15 GMT

@NicksmomESQ Bless your hearts!!! I cannot begin to imagine the understandable anxiety the two of you are feeling during this period of uncertainty. I know it's easier said than done, but please try to rest your mind, if only for a few minutes at a time, so that you don't get sick from worrying.

I echo the inspirational words of support and encouragement already expressed, and am sending prayers of solace, hope, and STRENGTH, and will continue to hold him up in prayer.🙏🙏

~~~All we need is LOVE💖

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NicksmomESQ — Tue, 04 Aug 2020 02:03:31 GMT

Thank you all for your prayers & words of encouragement. You have lifted me up & given me strength.

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NicksmomESQ — Tue, 04 Aug 2020 02:11:51 GMT

@Mindy D wrote:

@Mindy D OMG!! That's beautiful!! Thank you so much for that special message.

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Iwantcoffee — Tue, 04 Aug 2020 02:31:06 GMT

I am sorry you and your husband are going through this. I hope the biopsy goes well next week.