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Am I The Only One?

TRUE — Thu, 04 Sep 2014 00:31:18 GMT

Who doesn't have the need or desire to be online when out and about on a phone? I used to be very techy but have never had the urge to google something etc when out.

I paid 30 bucks for my samsung phone through Virgin and pay 30 bucks a month for text and phone. I can say I could use software for pics but even then I can get those from my kids etc...I just can't see paying all that money for what? but....

I do love my Imac at home.... so just wondering if anyone still feels like me...I can't stand when my kids come over and everyone has a phone in hand I tell them to put them down. Its another addiction IMO

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!FitChick! — Thu, 04 Sep 2014 00:41:47 GMT

The way people document their lives with pictures of going out to eat,ect it must look like I don't do anything since I have never been a picture taker. Even with a phone, I have to remind myself to get the phone out and take a picture. I was at the state fair, saw some awesome things, it would have been a good time to get a pix of my husband and me, but I was too busy enjoying the experience ( and navigating the crowds). I wonder if I will regret not capturing more of my life in pictures.

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chickenbutt — Thu, 04 Sep 2014 00:45:09 GMT

You are definitely NOT the only one! I think it's gotten to the point well beyond ridiculous and whatever happened to manners?

I like electronics a lot. In fact, I'm more of an electronics gal than a shoes & bags type of gal. But I think it's so silly that people just let it take them over entirely.

I use my phone as a phone. I don't need (or even like) to be on it all the time. If I'm in the presence of others, I am not on the phone at all. How rude!!

I have many computers and enjoy them a lot - not only for entertainment, but for research, bill-paying, and shopping. But I don't have some bizarre need to be on them all the time.

I guess I just don't understand the need for some to be connected 24/7. It seems kind of desperate but, above all, it's the complete lack of manners exhibited by some that just makes me shake my head. If I'm with somebody and they keep answering their phone (non-emergency of course), or even obsessively checking it, I will finally just walk away.

I don't text at all. I actually have texting blocked so as to stop the spam texts. If I want to send a note I have email for that.

Re: Am I The Only One?

brewhaha — Thu, 04 Sep 2014 01:06:20 GMT

On 9/3/2014 chickenbutt said:
You are definitely NOT the only one! I think it's gotten to the point well beyond ridiculous and whatever happened to manners?

I like electronics a lot. In fact, I'm more of an electronics gal than a shoes & bags type of gal. But I think it's so silly that people just let it take them over entirely.

I use my phone as a phone. I don't need (or even like) to be on it all the time. If I'm in the presence of others, I am not on the phone at all. How rude!!

I have many computers and enjoy them a lot - not only for entertainment, but for research, bill-paying, and shopping. But I don't have some bizarre need to be on them all the time.

I guess I just don't understand the need for some to be connected 24/7. It seems kind of desperate but, above all, it's the complete lack of manners exhibited by some that just makes me shake my head. If I'm with somebody and they keep answering their phone (non-emergency of course), or even obsessively checking it, I will finally just walk away.

I don't text at all. I actually have texting blocked so as to stop the spam texts. If I want to send a note I have email for that.

I agree. I couldn't have said it better.

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Cha1k — Thu, 04 Sep 2014 01:54:40 GMT

You are by no means the only one. I have several friends who refuse to become part of the 'connected' community, but I also tell them of my grandmother who never learned to drive. She was past the prime age for learning when automobiles became popular therefore she always had to depend on others to take her wherever she went. Some of my friends will not purchase anything on the internet, but they will call me to buy it for them, using my credit card of course, and then pay me when it arrives. I try to drag them kicking and screaming into the 21st century, but have just about given up.

Many of us are not digital natives like today's young folks are. It's difficult for many to understand the culture that entices them to be constantly connected. It's really no different that when we stayed on our pink Princess phones for hours talking to friends while listening to the Beatles.

I agree that many people are too obsessed with their smartphones when in the company of others and I have on occasion joked that they are with real live people who would love to engage in conversation face-to-face. When children in my family come to my home for meals or we go out to eat I set the rule that while at the table phones are put away.....and that includes mine.

I look at my smartphone as a tool. It is my:

photo camera

video camera

watch

alarm clock

timer

stopwatch

GPS and map

music player

book reader

calendar

rolodex/address book

compass

level

magnifier

flashlight

barcode reader

pedometer.

I have also used it to place phone calls.

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TRUE — Thu, 04 Sep 2014 02:10:04 GMT

Thanks all... I was under my desk lastnight I lost connection so here I am with not one but TWO flashlights under my desk unplugging, recycling etc...I couldn't take it anymore I am Very OCD but I turn 70 OMG.....I hate even saying that my body feels it my head doesn't so I called a son who I "thought" might be out and could drop by just to get on floor for me Again....well he came but guess what g'ma fixed it~!!!....He said "I KNEW you'd have it fixed",,,LOL

I do text and I did try the Iphone I didn't like it I like my pull out keyboard on my little Samsung it does the job. I'm sick of "selfies" this * Yeah I sound old here * generation is so self absorbed.

Thanks all I have to text someone and take a selfie.....LOL

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TRUE — Thu, 04 Sep 2014 02:10:38 GMT

Naked

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GCR18 — Thu, 04 Sep 2014 02:21:44 GMT

I have no desire to obsess about my phone. Most of the time I'm not exactly sure where it is.

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bonnielu — Thu, 04 Sep 2014 02:33:22 GMT

On 9/3/2014 graycatsrule said: I have no desire to obsess about my phone. Most of the time I'm not exactly sure where it is.

Love my phone but I see it the way you do. Half the time I have to call my phone from another phone just to find it.

People are so tied to their phones.... no personal interaction... no need to even look up and see what is around them. Very sad.

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kittykendra — Thu, 04 Sep 2014 02:41:05 GMT

I have a Tracfone. $100 a year. I have used it a few times to get an address or check something else online but it's a quick thing, not surfing, and I like having that ability in a pinch. I was just reading an article about how vulnerable phones are security wise. I'd never do banking on one. My phone is for my convenience and when I travel, not for anyone but a few people to get in touch with me any time.

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dooBdoo — Thu, 04 Sep 2014 02:47:38 GMT

On 9/3/2014 Cha1k said:
You are by no means the only one. I have several friends who refuse to become part of the 'connected' community, but I also tell them of my grandmother who never learned to drive. She was past the prime age for learning when automobiles became popular therefore she always had to depend on others to take her wherever she went. Some of my friends will not purchase anything on the internet, but they will call me to buy it for them, using my credit card of course, and then pay me when it arrives. I try to drag them kicking and screaming into the 21st century, but have just about given up.

Many of us are not digital natives like today's young folks are. It's difficult for many to understand the culture that entices them to be constantly connected. It's really no different that when we stayed on our pink Princess phones for hours talking to friends while listening to the Beatles.

I agree that many people are too obsessed with their smartphones when in the company of others and I have on occasion joked that they are with real live people who would love to engage in conversation face-to-face. When children in my family come to my home for meals or we go out to eat I set the rule that while at the table phones are put away.....and that includes mine.

I look at my smartphone as a tool. It is my:

photo camera

video camera

watch

alarm clock

timer

stopwatch

GPS and map

music player

book reader

calendar

rolodex/address book

compass

level

magnifier

flashlight

barcode reader

pedometer.

I have also used it to place phone calls.

Hi, Cha1k!

My iPhone is all those things and more. I would add that I once carried a cell phone and a Day Runner (planner, calendar, address book, all those things in one) just about everywhere I went. It's pretty, a nice woven fabric with leather trim on the cover, but oh so much larger than my iPhone ... which completely replaced the planner. I don't like texting, mainly because it's impossible to know if texts go through, so I seldom use that feature.

But my phone stays in my purse or pocket when I'm out and about, and I usually wear it on a clip around the house (it's a safety feature for those times when we're the only one at home).

My concern it that we've embraced the convenience and wonderfulness of smart phones, but we've failed as a society to learn the courtesy, the consideration of others, the etiquette. And, yes, I do think it's become an addiction, an obsession with many. That's a problem, quite serious in many respects -- particularly in the disregard for our safety and the safety of others, when people talk on the phones or text while driving a car.

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glb613 — Thu, 04 Sep 2014 08:02:34 GMT

I'm still undecided about getting an iPhone. I really do hear better using a landline's handset. If I'm not going to use it as my phone (keep my landline), I really don't know how much I'd use it. I'm retired, I'm home, I have a desktop, notebook and iPad. I can be connected 3 different ways anytime now. I have some friends who refuse to keep up with technology. Just like those who refused to learn to drive, there will be a time when not keeping up will come back to bite them.

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TRUE — Thu, 04 Sep 2014 08:09:09 GMT

On 9/4/2014 glb613 said: I'm still undecided about getting an iPhone. I really do hear better using a landline's handset. If I'm not going to use it as my phone (keep my landline), I really don't know how much I'd use it. I'm retired, I'm home, I have a desktop, notebook and iPad. I can be connected 3 different ways anytime now. I have some friends who refuse to keep up with technology. Just like those who refused to learn to drive, there will a time when not keeping up with come back to bite them.

I won't get rid of my landline. We have cable outages in the winter a lot I'm in Cal below San Fran it "used" to rain a lot.....drought now. So I keep it plus I like talking on a regular phone. I do like texting but as people know I still would rather speak on phone or in person because of miscommunication.... happens a lot

I'd still love a Mac book not sure between that or an Ipad I know you can get a keyboard I really don't need either.

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Big Sister — Thu, 04 Sep 2014 09:41:22 GMT

I don't have the desire or need to be online when I am out. I may take my Kindle and my dumb Tracfone, but that's all.

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Pook — Thu, 04 Sep 2014 11:02:50 GMT

You definitely are not the only one!! I can see very little - if any - reason to be connected and online when out and about. Even though I now have a Samsung tracfone smartphone, I rarely have it on as I have it for emergencies. There is nothing so important that a phone would need to take over my life!! Occasionally when at appointments I have used it to download a book to read and would use it to take a picture of something but can't imagine of what at this point!!

There is so little real people interaction anymore and so many have forgotten basic consideration for their fellow humans and do not know how to interact with others because of all the interactions through texting and social media. There is a time and place for everything but so many are obsessed with their phones and are actually rude when out in public.

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Campion — Thu, 04 Sep 2014 11:06:57 GMT

Lord knows I'm as techy as the next person (I worked for a huge tech firm for years, you'd know the name) but I don't own a smart phone. My phone CAN connect to the web but I don't do that, don't pay for the service and spend less than $100 a year on phone.

I don't mess around on the phone while in public. I use it basically for emergencies and calling ahead.

I don't feel the need nor do I think it is wise. You need to have your wits about you in public. Being distracted on a phone can lead to problems.

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Nuttmeg — Thu, 04 Sep 2014 12:41:05 GMT

I upgraded my cellphone after hurricane Sandy. I had to move on to a real smartphone with a large display. I do LUV some of the apps. Some have 100-500 Million downloads.

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violann — Thu, 04 Sep 2014 12:42:01 GMT

To DooBdoo and Cha1k I add tuning fork, sound recorder, music notation, and poetry notation tool. It's obviously a mini computer source for trivia and information finding and I use it as such. That's one of the reasons that I'm hoping to get rid of my "extra" iPad when the "big" iPhone comes out. I also text much more often on my phone than I make actual audio "phone" calls. Definitely a multi usedevice for me. If it weren't I wouldn't own it.

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Nuttmeg — Thu, 04 Sep 2014 12:49:13 GMT

On 9/4/2014 glb613 said:
I'm still undecided about getting an iPhone. I really do hear better using a landline's handset. If I'm not going to use it as my phone (keep my landline), I really don't know how much I'd use it. I'm retired, I'm home, I have a desktop, notebook and iPad. I can be connected 3 different ways anytime now. I have some friends who refuse to keep up with technology. Just like those who refused to learn to drive, there will be a time when not keeping up will come back to bite them.

Apple new iPhone 6 will bring more of us older folks, anyone wearing reading glasses, into the fold. A larger display is much easier to see.

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glb613 — Thu, 04 Sep 2014 14:06:33 GMT

On 9/4/2014 nutmeg3 said:
On 9/4/2014 glb613 said:
I'm still undecided about getting an iPhone. I really do hear better using a landline's handset. If I'm not going to use it as my phone (keep my landline), I really don't know how much I'd use it. I'm retired, I'm home, I have a desktop, notebook and iPad. I can be connected 3 different ways anytime now. I have some friends who refuse to keep up with technology. Just like those who refused to learn to drive, there will be a time when not keeping up will come back to bite them.

Apple new iPhone 6 will bring more of us older folks, anyone wearing reading glasses, into the fold. A larger display is much easier to see.

Who are you calling "us older folks"? LOL! I didn't get a smart phone because I couldn't afford the monthly bill and keep my landline. I could do both now but don't know how much I'd use it. As I posted, I'm not that mobile and don't feel the need to be constantly connected. I really do prefer having a conversation with friends and family to texting and e-mailing.

I don't begrudge anyone from upgrading when they can. I also don't begrudge anyone from having a smart phone. Myself, I'd rather spend the money for a data plan on a vacation.