https://community.qvc.com/t5/Home/My-Pillow-Question/m-p/1137878#M32509 <P>We do. There is a difference. The guidelines for ordering are just that, guidelines. DH and I are just the opposite of what's recommended. He's average height and at perfect weight while I'm a couple of inches taller and overweight. He prefers the medium while I prefer the firm. The medium has more room for the pieces of foam to move around and creates a looser, mushier feel. The firm has more pieces of foam in the same amount of space. IMO it provides more support but still provides a cushiony comfort at the same time. I sleep better on my My Pillow than I have on any other. I even bring it with me when I'm spending the night somewhere.</P> Fri, 08 Aug 2014 08:33:20 GMT JeanLouiseFinch 2014-08-08T08:33:20Z https://community.qvc.com/t5/Home/My-Pillow-Question/m-p/1137873#M32508 Does anybody have both the firm and medium? Is there a big difference and which do you prefer? Sue Fri, 08 Aug 2014 05:24:24 GMT https://community.qvc.com/t5/Home/My-Pillow-Question/m-p/1137873#M32508 susiecheckbook 2014-08-08T05:24:24Z https://community.qvc.com/t5/Home/My-Pillow-Question/m-p/1137878#M32509 <P>We do. There is a difference. The guidelines for ordering are just that, guidelines. DH and I are just the opposite of what's recommended. He's average height and at perfect weight while I'm a couple of inches taller and overweight. He prefers the medium while I prefer the firm. The medium has more room for the pieces of foam to move around and creates a looser, mushier feel. The firm has more pieces of foam in the same amount of space. IMO it provides more support but still provides a cushiony comfort at the same time. I sleep better on my My Pillow than I have on any other. I even bring it with me when I'm spending the night somewhere.</P> Fri, 08 Aug 2014 08:33:20 GMT https://community.qvc.com/t5/Home/My-Pillow-Question/m-p/1137878#M32509 JeanLouiseFinch 2014-08-08T08:33:20Z https://community.qvc.com/t5/Home/My-Pillow-Question/m-p/1137883#M32510 <P>If you buy the firm and it is too firm, you can always remove some of the filling. I have done this. I found the medium of the My Pillow with the gusseted side was too soft so I stole some of the filling from a firm one. Both are just right now. I was just thinking this morning when I woke up how much I like My Pillow. </P> Fri, 08 Aug 2014 14:15:37 GMT https://community.qvc.com/t5/Home/My-Pillow-Question/m-p/1137883#M32510 ceekay 2014-08-08T14:15:37Z https://community.qvc.com/t5/Home/My-Pillow-Question/m-p/1137888#M32511 Thank you. I did buy the firm and it is too firm for me but ok for my husband. I am afraid the medium will be too soft. I went to BBB last night to check the medium but the floor sample was the firm. Fri, 08 Aug 2014 15:51:42 GMT https://community.qvc.com/t5/Home/My-Pillow-Question/m-p/1137888#M32511 susiecheckbook 2014-08-08T15:51:42Z https://community.qvc.com/t5/Home/My-Pillow-Question/m-p/1137892#M32512 <P>The first My Pillow I got was at BBB with a coupon. It was a little too large and a little too firm for me so my husband is using it and loves it. I then got the My Pillow from the Q. It is slightly smaller than the BBB one. I am not sure they were offering a choice of firmness at the time I purchased. I liked it a lot and wanted a second one and chose the one with side gusset. It was too soft. So then I got a set of 2, one firm and one medium. I took some of the filling from the firm one and put it in the gusset one. So that meant the firm and the gusset one are about perfect. And I put the medium in the guest room. We take them with us when we travel and it is nice to have spares. Good luck on your search.</P> <P> </P> Fri, 08 Aug 2014 17:42:58 GMT https://community.qvc.com/t5/Home/My-Pillow-Question/m-p/1137892#M32512 ceekay 2014-08-08T17:42:58Z https://community.qvc.com/t5/Home/My-Pillow-Question/m-p/1137896#M32513 Do your pillows have zippers that you are able to remove the filling? The pillows I purchased have blue piping all around the pillow. Fri, 08 Aug 2014 18:08:28 GMT https://community.qvc.com/t5/Home/My-Pillow-Question/m-p/1137896#M32513 susiecheckbook 2014-08-08T18:08:28Z https://community.qvc.com/t5/Home/My-Pillow-Question/m-p/1137899#M32514 <P>I just used a seam ripper to remove the stitching on the piping near where the label is attached. You can kind of tell where the piping ends come together. I opened up the seam about 3 inches, dug out the filling and then sewed it back up on the sewing machine. I would think you could also do a whip stitch to close up the seam if you do not have a sewing machine.</P> Fri, 08 Aug 2014 18:14:49 GMT https://community.qvc.com/t5/Home/My-Pillow-Question/m-p/1137899#M32514 ceekay 2014-08-08T18:14:49Z https://community.qvc.com/t5/Home/My-Pillow-Question/m-p/1137904#M32515 <P>I bought the last tsv in queen/firm. I figured if it was too firm, I could always take some stuffing out. It's only been a couple months, but it has loosened up. I didn't like it at first, but kept using it anyway. About three weeks in, I discovered I liked it alot.</P> Sat, 09 Aug 2014 16:10:54 GMT https://community.qvc.com/t5/Home/My-Pillow-Question/m-p/1137904#M32515 GCR18 2014-08-09T16:10:54Z