topic Re: ComPact 2016 -- June in Beauty

ComPact 2016 -- June

just bee — Wed, 01 Jun 2016 15:21:28 GMT

The ComPact is a commitment to simplify, pare down, streamline. It began as a way to gain some control over our collections of beauty products. Why were we amassing so much, yet not using what we were buying? Why were we always searching for the next new product? Why couldn't we just find what worked for us and stick with it?

The ComPact, however, is not restricted to beauty items. If you have a collection you want to address, do it here. Choose an area you want to work on, and track your progress on the ComPact thread. Members will offer tips and encouragement.

Choose one of our many mantras (“One by one until they’re done!” “We are SPAHHHRRRTAN!!!” “Not until you really have to.” “Buy less, choose well, make it last.” “Resist the propaganda.” "If it's high, I don't buy!" “When in doubt, do without!” “Start where you are, use what you have, do what you can.” “Shoplighters of the World Unite!”) or create a new one and share it. Target items each month to toss, donate, or use, and post your “chopping block” -- or “hit list.” Post temptations, post victories.

They say it takes 30 days for something to become a habit: Let's see if taking the ComPact one month at a time works for you.

Join us.

Re: ComPact 2016 -- June

just bee — Wed, 01 Jun 2016 14:43:35 GMT

And now, back by popular demand...

Hey, all you HEPcats and HEPdogs! We had discussed making the Healthy Eating thread a monthly jam session, so I just went ahead and did a little improvisation. This is an invite to our crazy crib where you can come and break it down! I say we go 18 karat on this and really swing. If healthy eating’s not your bag, no problem. But if it is, I dig.

It’s cool, I’m booted, let’s jump!

Re: ComPact 2016 -- June

just bee — Wed, 01 Jun 2016 14:59:56 GMT

Barn owl update. As of this post, one owlet remains in the nest box and my, how it's grown. It was named Pearl but, after it fought off a hungry adult owl several times, it was renamed Rocky.

There are hundreds of comments on the site and many of them are unpleasant. Those who are displeased by the unfortunate turn of events are clearly part of the "blame the barn owls first" crowd. They suggest that the barn owl is somehow an inferior species -- a bird with bad moral character. "The Great Horned owls wouldn't have acted this way!" Excuse me, but Georgia wasn't under two feet of water, so how can you be so sure?

Comments are petty -- even cruel. "Barn owls aren't that cute, anyway." "Why even bother to name them if they're just going to eat each other?"

Really? Blaming these birds for what happened? Isn't that the worst case of fowl shaming?

This is simply a reminder that birds have it rough and that we take them for granted. They are among the wonders of the world and we should recognize that.

How can someone look at little Pearl/Rocky's face and say she/he doesn't deserve our respect and support?

Re: ComPact 2016 -- June

aprilskies — Wed, 01 Jun 2016 15:22:56 GMT

@just bee wrote:
Barn owl update. As of this post, one owlet remains in the nest box and my, how it's grown. It was named Pearl but, after it fought off a hungry adult owl several times, it was renamed Rocky.

There are hundreds of comments on the site and many of them are unpleasant. Those who are displeased by the unfortunate turn of events are clearly part of the "blame the barn owls first" crowd. They suggest that the barn owl is somehow an inferior species -- a bird with bad moral character. "The Great Horned owls wouldn't have acted this way!" Excuse me, but Georgia wasn't under two feet of water, so how can you be so sure?

Comments are petty -- even cruel. "Barn owls aren't that cute, anyway." "Why even bother to name them if they're just going to eat each other?"

Really? Blaming these birds for what happened? Isn't that the worst case of fowl shaming?

This is simply a reminder that birds have it rough and that we take them for granted. They are among the wonders of the world and we should recognize that.

How can someone look at little Pearl/Rocky's face and say she/he doesn't deserve our respect and support?

Sorry, but LOL. I cant believe people are reacting in that way. It is sad but it is nature, unfortunately.

Re: ComPact 2016 -- June

just bee — Wed, 01 Jun 2016 15:34:51 GMT

@aprilskies wrote:
@just bee wrote:
Barn owl update. As of this post, one owlet remains in the nest box and my, how it's grown. It was named Pearl but, after it fought off a hungry adult owl several times, it was renamed Rocky.

There are hundreds of comments on the site and many of them are unpleasant. Those who are displeased by the unfortunate turn of events are clearly part of the "blame the barn owls first" crowd. They suggest that the barn owl is somehow an inferior species -- a bird with bad moral character. "The Great Horned owls wouldn't have acted this way!" Excuse me, but Georgia wasn't under two feet of water, so how can you be so sure?

Comments are petty -- even cruel. "Barn owls aren't that cute, anyway." "Why even bother to name them if they're just going to eat each other?"

Really? Blaming these birds for what happened? Isn't that the worst case of fowl shaming?

This is simply a reminder that birds have it rough and that we take them for granted. They are among the wonders of the world and we should recognize that.

How can someone look at little Pearl/Rocky's face and say she/he doesn't deserve our respect and support?

Sorry, but LOL. I cant believe people are reacting in that way. It is sad but it is nature, unfortunately.

A whole different attitude last year when they all rallied around little Ollie. I hope this one pulls through. The kid's got heart.

Re: ComPact 2016 -- June

aprilskies — Wed, 01 Jun 2016 15:42:54 GMT

Here are my goals for June.

Beauty and Skincare - I am no longer making big claims here. Every time I do, I fall off badly. So, my goal is going back to being mindful. Although, I am so thrilled because I have been finishing up so many products these last couple of months and replacing them all from my stockpile. ...and I am so close on a few others. I am enjoying seeing my bottle/jar collection reducing and seeing some space. I have to be vigilant in my spending here if I want to get down to the basics in skincare.

Health - this is where I want to start focusing. I dont diet but I want to cut back on junk food and move more. While I still have too much in the house, I dont have as much as I use to. But, what I do have, I have to start portioning it out instead of eating mindlessly. I am debating on joining a gym that offers classes and swimming. Too much money if I dont go.

Youtube beauty channels - I dont really watch a lot of these as much anymore, just a few of them that I know, or feel, are giving honest opinions on things. Howevever, in June, I am going to try and limit my viewing of even these few channels. I realized the last few big tickets items I made, youtube made me buy them. LOL. If I didnt see them, I wouldnt of known they existed. I usually have my self imposed price limits so I still cant believe I spent so much on just a few items. So, it is time to break the habit. Usually I watch at night, when I am watching tv or cant sleep.

I am ready for June. Although, there is no need to wait until the first of the month to incorporate better habits, it feels like a fresh start.

I hope everyone is doing well.

Re: ComPact 2016 -- June

dosey — Wed, 01 Jun 2016 18:34:49 GMT

@just bee wrote:
@aprilskies wrote:
@just bee wrote:
Barn owl update. As of this post, one owlet remains in the nest box and my, how it's grown. It was named Pearl but, after it fought off a hungry adult owl several times, it was renamed Rocky.

There are hundreds of comments on the site and many of them are unpleasant. Those who are displeased by the unfortunate turn of events are clearly part of the "blame the barn owls first" crowd. They suggest that the barn owl is somehow an inferior species -- a bird with bad moral character. "The Great Horned owls wouldn't have acted this way!" Excuse me, but Georgia wasn't under two feet of water, so how can you be so sure?

Comments are petty -- even cruel. "Barn owls aren't that cute, anyway." "Why even bother to name them if they're just going to eat each other?"

Really? Blaming these birds for what happened? Isn't that the worst case of fowl shaming?

This is simply a reminder that birds have it rough and that we take them for granted. They are among the wonders of the world and we should recognize that.

How can someone look at little Pearl/Rocky's face and say she/he doesn't deserve our respect and support?

Sorry, but LOL. I cant believe people are reacting in that way. It is sad but it is nature, unfortunately.

A whole different attitude last year when they all rallied around little Ollie. I hope this one pulls through. The kid's got heart.

Confession time. A few days ago, I thought it would be safe to look at the nest since it appeared that prey deliveries were resuming. I was winding down, getting ready to turn in, and checked on the cuties. I opened the site and saw the two owlets looking out the window and flapping their wings. Within five seconds, an owl (I thought it was Dash, at first, but it wasn't.) stuck his head through the window and attacked one of the owlets. The other owlet backed into the corner. I closed the window and started sobbing. My husband asked me what was wrong. When I told him, he said, "Why do you watch that?" So much for sympathy. I am out completely. I hope the remaining owlet survives. Part of me hopes he finds the owls that killed his siblings and avenges their deaths in a very Godfather-like way. But you all are right. This is nature, and this is what happens daily. We cannot save every animal. If we did, the cycle that our world needs would change and cause much larger problems.

Re: ComPact 2016 -- June

BExplorer — Wed, 01 Jun 2016 18:39:59 GMT

@just bee Thank you for starting this thread. I don't contribute much but I do keep up on reading it. You compactors provide of wealth of support. 😊

@dosey Congratulations on your new job!

@aprilskies I feel your pain about not announcing big goals and then not meeting them. Little by little is still good (progress, not perfection).

I have been on a bit of a spending spree lately. I will use everything I have bought, but I also could have done without those things. I should be buying only needs at this time, rather than wants.

ETA: I am also on board for the HEP. When one area of my life is out of control, the rest follows. Spending is out of control, as is eating, and no exercising. 😔

Re: ComPact 2016 -- June

dosey — Wed, 01 Jun 2016 18:42:22 GMT

@aprilskies wrote:
Here are my goals for June.

Beauty and Skincare - I am no longer making big claims here. Every time I do, I fall off badly. So, my goal is going back to being mindful. Although, I am so thrilled because I have been finishing up so many products these last couple of months and replacing them all from my stockpile. ...and I am so close on a few others. I am enjoying seeing my bottle/jar collection reducing and seeing some space. I have to be vigilant in my spending here if I want to get down to the basics in skincare.

Health - this is where I want to start focusing. I dont diet but I want to cut back on junk food and move more. While I still have too much in the house, I dont have as much as I use to. But, what I do have, I have to start portioning it out instead of eating mindlessly. I am debating on joining a gym that offers classes and swimming. Too much money if I dont go.

Youtube beauty channels - I dont really watch a lot of these as much anymore, just a few of them that I know, or feel, are giving honest opinions on things. Howevever, in June, I am going to try and limit my viewing of even these few channels. I realized the last few big tickets items I made, youtube made me buy them. LOL. If I didnt see them, I wouldnt of known they existed. I usually have my self imposed price limits so I still cant believe I spent so much on just a few items. So, it is time to break the habit. Usually I watch at night, when I am watching tv or cant sleep.

I am ready for June. Although, there is no need to wait until the first of the month to incorporate better habits, it feels like a fresh start.

I hope everyone is doing well.

Funny you should mention youtube beauty channels. I was searching for some tips for women over 40 and ran across one that was hilarious. She must be new to making videos because when she was doing her eyes and commenting, the camera was recording from her nose to her chin. Tears were flowing from laughter!! That is something I would do.

Re: ComPact 2016 -- June

dosey — Wed, 01 Jun 2016 18:44:37 GMT

@just bee wrote:
And now, back by popular demand...

Hey, all you HEPcats and HEPdogs! We had discussed making the Healthy Eating thread a monthly jam session, so I just went ahead and did a little improvisation. This is an invite to our crazy crib where you can come and break it down! I say we go 18 karat on this and really swing. If healthy eating’s not your bag, no problem. But if it is, I dig.

It’s cool, I’m booted, let’s jump!

So are you inviting us to join HEP? My DD isn't here to interpret your post.

Re: ComPact 2016 -- June

dosey — Wed, 01 Jun 2016 18:45:44 GMT

@BExplorer wrote:
@just bee Thank you for starting this thread. I don't contribute much but I do keep up on reading it. You compactors provide of wealth of support. 😊

@dosey Congratulations on your new job!

@aprilskies I feel your pain about not announcing big goals and then not meeting them. Little by little is still good (progress, not perfection).

I have been on a bit of a spending spree lately. I will use everything I have bought, but I also could have done without those things. I should be buying only needs at this time, rather than wants.

ETA: I am also on board for the HEP. When one area of my life is out of control, the rest follows. Spending is out of control, as is eating, and no exercising. 😔

Thank you!

Re: ComPact 2016 -- June

aprilskies — Wed, 01 Jun 2016 19:55:41 GMT

@BExplorer wrote:

I have been on a bit of a spending spree lately. I will use everything I have bought, but I also could have done without those things. I should be buying only needs at this time, rather than wants.

Yes, this is exactly how I feel of my spending lately. All the skincare went straight into rotation at least. The only thing that hasn't been used with any regularity yet is the mu. I am using certain things for a month at a time so I will eventually use it. BUT, I didn't need any of it. Unfortunately, when I get into my spending cycles, everything sounds like a good idea.

Re: ComPact 2016 -- June

aprilskies — Wed, 01 Jun 2016 19:57:52 GMT

@dosey wrote:
@BExplorer wrote:

@dosey Congratulations on your new job!

Thank you!

Dosey, I think I missed the post on the new job. Congratulations. Hopefully, you like it.

Re: ComPact 2016 -- June

aprilskies — Wed, 01 Jun 2016 20:12:39 GMT

So, I absolutely had to post that I finally hit pan on the white eyeshadow I have been working on. I was thrilled this morning. It is just a tiny speck of pan but I think it is the first eyeshadow ever that I hit pan on.

Sometimes I feel so silly posting excitement over these things but after accumulating and tossing so much, it feels good to use something. ...and this is the only place I would even dare mention such a thing. lol Thanks, ladies.

I will say, using the same eyeshadow palette everyday is good in the sense that you really get to know the colors and how to use them. ..or not. But, you really realize how long it takes to use even one eyeshadow and it is a bit boring, especially if it is just a neutrals palette.But, it feels good to see a palette getting some use. I will continue with one month one palette but once I rotate through, I might make the cycles longer. I have no notion that I will finish these palettes, but I would like to get good use out of them.

Re: ComPact 2016 -- June

aprilskies — Wed, 01 Jun 2016 20:15:12 GMT

@dosey wrote:
@aprilskies wrote:
Here are my goals for June.

Beauty and Skincare - I am no longer making big claims here. Every time I do, I fall off badly. So, my goal is going back to being mindful. Although, I am so thrilled because I have been finishing up so many products these last couple of months and replacing them all from my stockpile. ...and I am so close on a few others. I am enjoying seeing my bottle/jar collection reducing and seeing some space. I have to be vigilant in my spending here if I want to get down to the basics in skincare.

Health - this is where I want to start focusing. I dont diet but I want to cut back on junk food and move more. While I still have too much in the house, I dont have as much as I use to. But, what I do have, I have to start portioning it out instead of eating mindlessly. I am debating on joining a gym that offers classes and swimming. Too much money if I dont go.

Youtube beauty channels - I dont really watch a lot of these as much anymore, just a few of them that I know, or feel, are giving honest opinions on things. Howevever, in June, I am going to try and limit my viewing of even these few channels. I realized the last few big tickets items I made, youtube made me buy them. LOL. If I didnt see them, I wouldnt of known they existed. I usually have my self imposed price limits so I still cant believe I spent so much on just a few items. So, it is time to break the habit. Usually I watch at night, when I am watching tv or cant sleep.

I am ready for June. Although, there is no need to wait until the first of the month to incorporate better habits, it feels like a fresh start.

I hope everyone is doing well.

Funny you should mention youtube beauty channels. I was searching for some tips for women over 40 and ran across one that was hilarious. She must be new to making videos because when she was doing her eyes and commenting, the camera was recording from her nose to her chin. Tears were flowing from laughter!! That is something I would do.

LOL, too funny.

Re: ComPact 2016 -- June

FindingMyJoy — Wed, 01 Jun 2016 22:51:05 GMT

Dosey - Congratulations on the new job!!!! That is really exciting!!! In last month's thread you mentioned that you found your business attire is small - if you have time before your start date, you may be able to get a bit healthier and fit into the clothes!

I laughed at your story about the youtube lady. I have seen similar videos! Each time, I wonder - why the heck did they post this??? Did they not bother to watch the video themselves before posting it?? Then you see the other youtubers who appear to do it for a living and have superb lighting etc. It's amazing how much youtube has exploded the past couple years.

Re: ComPact 2016 -- June

FindingMyJoy — Wed, 01 Jun 2016 22:55:20 GMT

@aprilskies wrote:
So, I absolutely had to post that I finally hit pan on the white eyeshadow I have been working on. I was thrilled this morning. It is just a tiny speck of pan but I think it is the first eyeshadow ever that I hit pan on.

Sometimes I feel so silly posting excitement over these things but after accumulating and tossing so much, it feels good to use something. ...and this is the only place I would even dare mention such a thing. lol Thanks, ladies.

I will say, using the same eyeshadow palette everyday is good in the sense that you really get to know the colors and how to use them. ..or not. But, you really realize how long it takes to use even one eyeshadow and it is a bit boring, especially if it is just a neutrals palette.But, it feels good to see a palette getting some use. I will continue with one month one palette but once I rotate through, I might make the cycles longer. I have no notion that I will finish these palettes, but I would like to get good use out of them.

Congratulations!!!! You have every right to feel excited about hitting pan!! I know I did when it happened to me LOL. But you're right, some people wouldn't understand it.

It's definitely surprising to see how long it takes to hit bottom of an eye product. It shows they are a good investment - takes forever to empty them but I totally agree that it can get boring.

I took a break from my pan the palette experiment so I could play with a newer palette. The experiment was really good for me and I will continue to try to keep my usage to 2-3 palettes to see if I can make any more dents. I may dig thru my supply and find another older 1 to combine with use of a newer one so I can enjoy both.

Re: ComPact 2016 -- June

FindingMyJoy — Wed, 01 Jun 2016 23:18:13 GMT

My June Goals =

I will allow myself 1 well-thought out beauty/skincare purchase. A no-buy will make me splurge so allowing 1 is a good step to narrow down the impulse buys.

I have reviewed my clothing including shoes and believe that I have enough for work and for casual wear. I will be doing a no-buy for these items.

B&BW semi annual sale - I will allow myself to buy 2 new candles. I will not leave the story with huge bags filled with shower gels that I will not enjoy but just bought since it was on sale.

I'm on board for a healthier June!!! My goal = do either weight training or yoga 4 times a week. I will add this on to going on long walks when weather permits. I think the weights and yoga will be a good way to remind myself of what our human bodies are capable of doing! Plus, I've always heard that adding muscle is one of the best things you can do when trying to drop weight/get healthier. I believe under these pudgie arms are some actual bicep and tricep muscles!! No, I won't expect to see a 6-pack of abs anytime soon but a decrease in belly jiggle will be a victory!!!!

Here is a sign that I know I have let myself go the past couple months - yesterday I dusted off a FIRM workout dvd that included both upper and lower body weights work and aerobics. I knew I was going a little lighter since it was a return to working out......but today my legs have been talking to me!!! The step ups, squats, and lunges have angered muscles that haven't been used recently. I was feeling the burn!!! I will be curious how long it takes of doing workouts regularly again so my legs don't talk to me when I walk up the 3 flights of stairs at work LOL.

Re: ComPact 2016 -- June

dosey — Thu, 02 Jun 2016 01:07:44 GMT

@aprilskies wrote:
@dosey wrote:
@BExplorer wrote:

@dosey Congratulations on your new job!

Thank you!

Dosey, I think I missed the post on the new job. Congratulations. Hopefully, you like it.

Thank you! I mentioned it at the end of the May thread.

Re: ComPact 2016 -- June

dosey — Thu, 02 Jun 2016 01:12:27 GMT

@FindingMyJoy wrote:
Dosey - Congratulations on the new job!!!! That is really exciting!!! In last month's thread you mentioned that you found your business attire is small - if you have time before your start date, you may be able to get a bit healthier and fit into the clothes!

I laughed at your story about the youtube lady. I have seen similar videos! Each time, I wonder - why the heck did they post this??? Did they not bother to watch the video themselves before posting it?? Then you see the other youtubers who appear to do it for a living and have superb lighting etc. It's amazing how much youtube has exploded the past couple years.

Thank you for the congrats! My goal is to get into at least some of my pants and skirts. I should be able to do it in 3-4 weeks. Isn't it funny how a fairly short period of inactivity can affect our wardrobe choices? And I used to be very active. Let's do this together, everyone!

Your thoughts about the youtube video are the same ones I had. Why did she post it? And, yes, there are some youtubers who have mastered the art of making videos. The lighting is perfect. Excellent editing skills. Some even have nice background music!!