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01-04-2017 03:17 PM
01-04-2017 03:20 PM
01-28-2017 02:58 AM - edited 01-28-2017 03:05 AM
@LilacTree wrote:I'm talking aging moms with middle-aged children. So that means the 70-80 year olds.
Would you say your children involve you in their lives, discuss issues with you, appreciate your experience and knowledge, and consider you an important part of their family?
Or do they keep you in the dark regarding family issues, adopt a "don't tell mom" attitude, and avoid situations where they feel you might have an opinion?
I'm not saying they don't love you, worry about you, and help you when you need it. I'm just talking about allowing you to feel as though you are still an important part of the family and give you the respect that you always had when everyone was younger. In other words, allow you to feel as though you are still "useful."
If I really need help, my son that lives 20 miles away helps and calls once a week. My son that lives a mile away never calls, but has me email him once a day to let him know I,m OK. IF I don,t send one by 3M, he will check . I have only forgotten twice. In his defense he has a lot of problems, so I have to be one less of a worry.
I know that I am not important in their lives. Nor MY Grandchildren. I have learned to live with it, though it gets painful at times. I am a very strong woman and a survivor. I have a busy life volunteering, taking care of my home and two big yards, going to school, yes at 80, I go to college. Got a scholarship at age 72 and gave the graduation speech, made the Dean,s Honor list. They know I might be old number wise, but not mentally. I go to the gym and out with friends. I also have my best friend, a Poodle/Maltese mix who volunteers at hospitals. I could feel sorry for myself, it life is too short not to live it the best we can, even with the sad and hurtful parts.
02-02-2017 09:27 PM
What fabulous accomplishments, QVCAddiction! You have benefited many. Good for you, and good for them! Keep up your excellent contributions in life!
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