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Re: Women judge each other by their handbags???????

On 7/25/2014 BlingQueen022 said:
On 7/25/2014 RedHeadedWench said:
On 7/25/2014 ennui1 said:

Women judge each other by <em>everything</em>. Women are ruthless.

ITA!

So true. I agree also.

Sad....but so true.

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Re: Women judge each other by their handbags???????

Meh. I notice a cool looking purse. I notice whether someone has what seems to me to be an interesting sense of style. I don't judge though.

I think the OP must mean: do you form opinions or size other women up based on their handbags. For me, I just try to take in whatever message the other person is trying to send with their overall appearance. It isn't just one thing. It's the whole effect.

Some effects do turn me off. That's true. But just because I'm turned off, doesn't mean there's any moral weight to it. Judgement has moral overtones--good or bad, and for me that doesn't play into it. It's just, "I like that look," or "I don't get that look, but whatever."

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Re: Women judge each other by their handbags???????

OMGOSH they poofed my post. I said I can't believe she stated that as it was quite presumptuous and vapid.

They keep poofing my links and posts, LOL.

I do think women judge. I think women judge all the time.

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Re: Women judge each other by their handbags???????

I never notice other women's handbags unless they have a logo print bag of some type. There are many many with LVs around here, I mean it's oversaturated and it is no longer the Speedys so much. I see many NeverFull GM and no doubt they are fake.

In the early '80s there were parties where the hostess would bring in flight attendants, they sold designer knock-offs. I remember lots of young women and teen girls carrying fake LVs even back then.

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Re: Women judge each other by their handbags???????

Boy am I in trouble. I carry a decorated grocery bag that I buy for $1.99 to carry my groceries home. I have a few other bags but I mainly use them for travel and they have pockets and places to store and hide things.

I notice a smile or a friendly gesture such as a wave or kind words. I love to chat with strangers and often just start talking. My hubby always asks where I know this person and I just tell him I never saw them before until now but next time around I will know them better.

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Re: Women judge each other by their handbags???????

Well, not to put too fine a point on it ..... but if women aren't JUDGING other women ...... at least they are NOTICING them. {#emotions_dlg.laugh}

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Re: Women judge each other by their handbags???????

What exactly would the judgment be? And, why would I care?

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Re: Women judge each other by their handbags???????

On 7/25/2014 ennui1 said:

Women judge each other by everything. Women are ruthless.

True... I guess the vendors and hosts just aren't supposed to say so...


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Re: Women judge each other by their handbags???????

On 7/25/2014 stevieb said:
On 7/25/2014 ennui1 said:

Women judge each other by <em>everything</em>. Women are ruthless.

True... I guess the vendors and hosts just aren't supposed to say so...

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Re: Women judge each other by their handbags???????

Shallow and insecure women, maybe!