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[ID2]

So sorry for your losses. Several years ago I lost both of my 16 year old cats within 3 weeks of each other. I was devastated! It'll be a tough road but you will come to terms that it was just their time. 

[jubilant]

So sorry to hear your going through so many losses all at once.  That is hard.  I said a prayer for you after reading your post this morning.  Hoping you find some comfort and peace in knowing we are all thinking of you.

[SaRina]

@makeup addict, Lucy was missing her best pal, Gracie, and she told Gracie how beautiful it was over The Rainbow Bridge.  She told her to come on over so they could be together again. That's all there is to it. You will all be reunited some day.  I know how hard it is to lose a beloved pet but, in the meantime, please take comfort in knowing they are together.  Sweet Abby is by your side now to lick away your tears...

Like you said, things happen for a reason and you needed to be where you were yesterday.  Your job served a good purpose for you, but I know bigger and better things will come along.  Right now is your time to grieve. Please take care of yourself.. Sending you peaceful and calming thoughts...

[qualitygal]

It has been a horrible day for you. Giving you a big cyber hug. Wishing for the best for you. I'm glad you were there for her, and I'm sure she was happy you were there with her too. You did the best for her. Kiss that puppy and lots of hugs to the new one too. Will be thinking of you today.

[PamfromCT]

Yes, what a horrible day you had.  Losing your little dear one is so very painful.  I really feel for you.  I am glad you are getting support from your family, and your new pup will help you ease the pain somewhat and get you through.  

I am also truly sorry about your job.  Believe it or not, so often another door will open that will prove to be better than what you had.  it happened to my DH, who was "downsized" when the corporation decided to lay off many.  It was a terrible shock and came when our youngest was in his freshman year of college.  And my DH's father died about two weeks later.  We pulled together, got through, and DH finally got an even better job, with a very large yearly bonus, as well.  He was treated as a valued employee, was very happy, and retired from that company.  So many times things work for the greater good.  

Take care of yourself and let us know how you are doing.

[Mom2Dogs]

@makeup addict....so very sorry.  Take care of your self.

[violann]

Sometimes when devastating things happen all at once, it seems that we identify a strength to bear them that we never thought we'd have. 

I'm hoping that you will find a degree of peace from the fact that your first sorrow brought you home in time to say farewell to your Precious Pup.

Whatever you decide about your job, it must indicate something positive that you were encouraged to apply for other jobs within the company, so kudos to you that at very least, you will be taking away a positive recommendation.

Take good care of yourself! There are a lot of posters here who are thinking of you and hoping things will start looking up a little very soon.........

[KingstonsMom]

@makeup addict

I'm so very sorry for your loss of Lucy and Gracie. While grieving the loss of one of my beloved dogs, I found this poem and took comfort in it. I hope it may bring you some comfort too.

Last Night

I stood by your bed last night; I came to have a peek.

I could see that you were crying, you found it hard to sleep.

I whined to you softly as you wiped away a tear,

"It's me, I haven't left you, I'm well, I'm fine, I'm here."

I was close to you at breakfast, I watched you pour your coffee.

You were thinking of the many times your hand reached down to me.

I was with you at the shop today; your arms were getting sore,

I longed to take your parcels, I wish I could do more.

I was with you at my grave today; you tend it with such care.

I want to re-assure you, that I'm not lying there.

I walked with you toward the house, you fumbled for your key.

I gently put my paw on you; I smiled and said, "It's me."

You looked so very, very tired and sank into a chair.

I tried so hard to let you know that I was standing there.

It's possible for me to be so near you everyday,

to tell you with such certainty, "I never went away."

You sat there very quietly, then smiled, I think you knew....

in the stillness of the evening, I was very close to you.

The day is over, I smile and watch you yawning

and say, "Goodnight, God Bless, I'll see you in the morning."

And when the time is right for you to cross the brief divide,

I'll rush across to meet you and we'll stand side by side.

I have so many things to show you, there's so much for you to see.

Be patient, live your journey out....then come home to be with me

[KingstonsMom]

@makeup addict

IF IT SHOULD BE

If it should be that I grow weak
And pain should keep me from my sleep,
Then you must do what must be done,
For this last battle cannot be won.

You will be sad, I understand.
Don't let your grief then stay your hand.
For this day, more than all the rest,
Your love for me must stand the test.

We've had so many happy years.
What is to come can hold no fears.
You'd not want me to suffer so;
The time has come -- please let me go.

Take me where my need they'll tend,
And please stay with me till the end.
Hold me firm and speak to me,
Until my eyes no longer see.

I know in time that you will see
The kindness that you did for me.
Although my tail its last has waved,
From pain and suffering I've been saved.

Please do not grieve -- it must be you
Who had this painful thing to do.
We've been so close, we two, these years;
Don't let your heart hold back its tears.

--- Anonymous ---

[goldensrbest]

Sorry, be strong not fair two so close,seems like that may be reason,the puppy came into your life.