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[YorkieonmyPillow]

Hypothetical question.

You're in your twenties and have had a serious relationship for 4 or 5 years with the person you feel is the love of your life.

He or she is absolutely everything you want and admire in a person, and the two of you have discussed marriage.

Your love suddenly dumps you. The reason doesn't matter; it's just that they broke it off for whatever reason.

Due to how wonderful your love was, would you declare, "If it takes forever, I will wait for you," OR would you move on with your life (after grieving the relationship), and eventually (you hope) find someone else to love?

[Shanus]

@YorkieonmyPillow. I'd move on. After being dumped, I could never trust it wouldn't happen again...and again.

[CareBears]

I would move on, if it is meant to be it will be, if not there are other fish in the sea!

[sunshine45]

move on.....easy decision.

[meallen616]

Definitely, move on!

[qualitygal]

The latter for darn sure. Thank your lucky stars, hypothetically, that person left your life before it could have been ruined. They would have made a lousy other.

[SilleeMee]

I believe in that saying...

"If you love something set it free..." I would move on. I did it three times!

[coco14]

Please move on.

[cherry]

I would thank my lucky stars  for a narrow escape, and move on. It probably would hurt a lot ,and take a while to recover ,but I think it's the best thing to do

[deepwaterdotter]

"Next contestant please."  Or as my mother used to say, "Don't let the door hit you on the way out."