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[Luvsmyfam]

no she has not texted back.it was at her home also.before I left for her house,she asked if I could pick up a bag of ice.i would never take money for that of course

[San Antonio Gal]

Hope you weren't out a lot of money @Luvsmyfam .  I wouldn't be happy with her right now, but nothing you can do about it.  At least you'll know for future events.  Take care.

[itsmagic]

I’ve had that happen to me too.  I hate asking people for money even though they agreed to go in on the gift but I did and they eventually paid.  I don’t volunteer anymore to pick up a group gift. 

[Luvsmyfam]

thing is,of course I see her at family functions,which if this turns into a hot mess,I will be uncomfortabe.every host there has a spouse.so if they blow money,they are taken care of.i am on my own for financial things

[Luvsmyfam]

thank you for your response 

[Kachina624]

@Luvsmyfam I'd do exactly what you did. 

[Queen of shop]

@Luvsmyfam  She should feel bad not you. I would text her daily to get your money back. I am very familiar with these kinds of people. It is an artform for some to get over on others.

Hope it works out for you. Don't be shy with her. It was agreed on that she should pay her share.

[skatting44]

 If the amount she was to reimburse you is less than $50 than I'd let it go if she does not respond. However , I'd never again agree to go in on a gift with her .

I've had this happen before with family , so I can appreciate your angst .

[M-Pet]

The event was at her home, she made invatations, mailed them and paid for the postage.  I don't know how much the gift card was for, but I would let it go.  If she does not reply to your text, just forget about it.

[KingstonsMom]

You asked for her portion of the gift card, as you should have, if she chooses to ignore your request, let it go.

As you said, it's not worth feeling any animosity at future family events, but I wouldn't forget it either.....lesson learned.