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03-21-2015 10:42 AM
03-21-2015 10:44 AM
If you are close enough to be asked to be a bridesmaid, you should feel free to speak your heart to the bride.
No excuses...just tell her the truth. A fake excuse will sound fake...just be honest.
BTW- Why did the wedding planner contact you first? Shouldn't the bride have spoken to you instead? Is that a new tradition???
03-21-2015 10:45 AM
You will get two kinds of advice:
1) it's her day, so if you are a true friend you will do what she wants and wear what she wants.
2) decline, but offer to help with the shower/parties.
Are you going to be the only attendant? It seems kind of late to be asking for June (unless it's a year away). If you were the only attendant, I think you could pull her aside and ask if you could pick your dress/shoes and have her approve them. If not, say you're one of 10, then you will have little input.
03-21-2015 10:46 AM
I googled how to decline bridesmaid invitation, and got these, looks as though there are many options and the question has come up before.
https://www.google.com/search?q=how+to+decline+bridesmaid+request&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8
03-21-2015 10:49 AM
03-21-2015 10:51 AM
03-21-2015 10:58 AM
What is wrong with thanking her and telling her what an awesome friend she is. Then explain to her exactly what you told us.
03-21-2015 11:06 AM
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