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12-22-2014 02:10 AM
12-22-2014 02:19 AM
It is still your home and you will have to stand up for yourself. Just be honest with all of them and tell them upfront how you are dealing with tired worn out husband and yourself with child that isn't sleeping. Don't change things up . Just fix what you normally do only a larger amount. Let the one bringing the dog that you can't have a dog that is not child friendly and that he has to either get a motel or he needs to crate them. It is not fair for someone to impose like that. You only have to deal with what you allow yourself to be pushed into. Do it in a nice way but just be upfront about all of it.
12-22-2014 02:20 AM
So sorry that you are agonizing over family coming to visit. How many people are coming? How long will they be in town? Do they have to stay with you and your husband/children or can they stay in a hotel? If they are staying with you, can the dogs be housed in a kennel? Why not serve food that you like to serve and limit the cleanup?
Please excuse all these questions... just something to think about.
12-22-2014 02:22 AM
Hugs to you. This too shall pass.
In the end, it will all be alright and if it's not alright, it's not the end.
12-22-2014 02:31 AM
I say enjoy your family while you are there. You don't have to go all out and cook. Just do the minimum. The dogs on the other hand. That is just rude, especially when the dog is not kid friendly, and you have a kid. He need to buy a crate or crates to keep them in. Not fair for the dogs but...
12-22-2014 02:33 AM
I don't know about adding words of wisdom, but my best advice is to be honest. Tell them. It sounds like they love you and want to spend time with you. There is no shame in admitting you need help and are tired. Chances are if they know, they will help and it could be one of your best Christmas' ever. And the brother with the dogs - I'm one of the biggest dog lovers around - the dogs need to be contained. Your youngest doesn't have to need therapy in the future because she/he had to worry about being eaten by a dog. All my blessings being sent your way.
12-22-2014 02:35 AM
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12-22-2014 02:47 AM
Your brother is a tad demanding... and he was just with you at Thanksgiving! I would order in, keep the dogs out, and enjoy my family.
What are you and your DH planning to do?
Edited to add: Oh, and let your dear brother take all of you out for dinner
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